Salacious details within – Sex, Lies, and Audiotape! Did she cheat? Opinion needed!

[aliveagain]

Both of your scenarios make her out to be guilty because your too cheap to buy a camera and only have audio. She passed all questions on the polygraph, not one, not two but three, do you know what the odds are of that happening? DazedandConfused2, I would accept the results of a polygraph over a lying cheating spouse and day of the week. These guys have to be licensed, regulated and are required to meet certain minimum standards, they don't just buy a machine and then go into business. It sounds like you've decided that she is guilty regardless. Next thing you know you'll be black lighting her panties, that could be your next blog. How do you know your cousin wasn't sitting on the couch licking an ice cream cone and got brain freeze, I moan when I get brain freeze? Perhaps what you heard was your dog licking water out of the toilet bowl? SHE PASSED A POLYGRAPH with flying colors. Why don't you take a polygraph from the same guy, try lying and see if you pass. Girl, pack up your daughter and run away from this guy as fast as you can because there is something wrong here, there is no logic in his thinking. I think you dodged a bullet.

[whodat]

From this recording you got "My gf blew my cousin"? Seriously dude? The recording was lame and to me does not prove anything happened at all, let alone with your gf.

 

Even if he was getting a bj all the sounds and actions indicate that he was getting the kind of bj you can only expect from a $5 hooker. From the sounds of him grunting and groaning all morning and taking a dump he sounds like he preferred that to the supposed bj.

 

Unless there are background reasons as to why your gf would be willing to give a bj to your disgusting cousin right after he took a dump and while he was watching tv without even talking beforehand ("look at me" "walk over here" doesn't count he could have been talking to the friggin dog) then drop this whole thing man.

 

If you do have other suspicions about your gf which caused you to get the recorder in the first place, then you should have waited until you heard something WAY more conclusive before letting the cat out of the bag.

 

Beating everyone up over this crappy recording is a royal waste of time in my opinion.

Edited July 3, 2013 by whodat
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[BreatheForABit]

OP, what kind of pleasure do you think your girlfriend supposedly got out of being your cousin's oral spittoon for 11 minutes? Nothing quite as satisfying as UNRECIPROCAL sex, now is there?

 

I didn't bother listening to some silly tape or anything else.

 

Maybe your cousin was watching a porn movie like someone suggested. I'm having a hard time believing this whole thing as the entire 'family' is here supposedly posting under different names in this thread.

 

"Entire family" is here??

 

It's just me, "B", and E050822 who is "G". Is "M" here also?

 

Just wondering:)

 

Also, in the second 30 minutes is where the "reciprocal" sex occurs. M blares the TV (at MAX!) obviously trying to mask the activity in that section.

[BreatheForABit]

Unless there are background reasons as to why your gf would be willing to give a bj to your disgusting cousin right after he took a dump and while he was watching tv without even talking beforehand ("look at me" "walk over here" doesn't count he could have been talking to the friggin dog) then drop this whole thing man.

 

The reasoning behind that is that "M" knows about the recording device, I didn't tell him, his brother told him. This is why they are trying to be VERY quiet and drown out the sounds of sex. The second 30 minute recording (not uploaded but will upload if people would like to hear what I'm typing about here) shows "M" blaring the TV at full volume and taking things to what is believed to be the bedroom with this mystery woman, but it is very difficult to make this out with the TV blaring so loud.

 

Why would someone blare the TV at full-blast at 7:45 in the morning? Especially if there is someone who is sleeping in the house, a mere 20 to 30 feet away?

 

It's also not only a BJ, there is obvious banging going on after "M" blares the TV super loud. The bedroom door shuts and reopens after a few minutes and then he returns to turn down the TV.

 

He wasn't talking to the dog because right after he says "walk over here" a second set of foot steps follows "M" to where he was directing. This set of hushed footsteps only goes for a short distance, implying that the person following was very near our bedroom door and not walking in from outside as that is very noticeable when heard in the audio. Also, if he was calling the dog he would have said the dog's name as he usually does.

Edited July 4, 2013 by BreatheForABit

[Space Ritual]

What an exhausting thread.

 

 

I wonder aloud if the principals in this low brow drama realize just how much energy they have expended attempting to persuade complete strangers on the internet that their side is the correct side.

 

has it occurred to you that the time you have spent filling up 11 pages of a thread that comes down to a "he said/she said" could have been spent much more constructively by working on your real life issues in a real life setting? If this is all to be believed, at the very least, the level of trust in the relationship is so miniscule that there is no way this relationship will survive regardless? seriously look at all your back and forth posts....your relationship is totally toxic and you would both be better off parting ways, for neither of you have the maturity to be in any kind of relationship.

 

 

 

If it is not to be believed (of which I am in that camp), then you get mad props for trolling and probably should get some sort of an award for suckering so many good advice givers into taking the bait.

[E050822]

I know B is the only one in this forum that knows what I look like...so I'm letting the rest of you know, I am by no means a small woman. I am approximately 5'4", and while I'm not comfortable telling everyone in here my weight, I'm no lightweight...so, that being said, it's an old house with very creaky hardwood floors throughout most of the house. It seems everywhere I walk, the floor creaks under my weight...even if I am only wearing socks and trying to walk quietly. Tomorrow I am going to have B add the part of the audio from where I exit the bedroom after waking up around 10:30 am that morning. If someone other than myself could listen to both footstep sounds...both early in the morning when M was believed to be near our bedroom door, and then my footsteps a few hours later, I'd be interested to hear if anyone else thinks they are the same footsteps. B does, and that's why he keeps feeling that I'm guilty. I, however, know they not only are not the same person, but also that the weight being carried and pattern of steps sound different. Will post that part tomorrow though...exhausted from a very busy, stressful day at work! So glad tomorrow is a holiday! :-)

[E050822]

We are currently working on these issues, because we do love each other and can't picture going our separate ways. I'm hopeful that the outside guidance we have started getting will help B see that I have been truthful about not doing anything with his cousin or anyone else. As much as you see this being a "toxic" relationship, most of the time we are good for one another. Yes, there have been rough spots along the way, just like many new relationships...but we have always gotten through them together. I'm hoping this will have the same outcome.

[Tinie]

Holy flying UFOs.

 

The only thing I see here is one ugly MASSIVE mess of distrust and immaturity.

 

How, someone please tell me, are you two still together? Playing cops and robbers is something highschool kids do, not grown adults.

[BreatheForABit]

We also know someone else was there and that M spoke to someone - that other person, himself, or... perhaps he chatting through a webcam?

 

M can barely use a computer, let alone a webcam or skype. He was certainly directing someone to "walk over here" as there is a different set of footsteps directly after he says this.

 

What would a rationally thinking person believe knowing that M and G were the only two people in the house ten minutes before this. Would I be right to believe that within that ten minutes a person so stealthy as to not make a noise entering the house full of creaky floors and ending up near our bedroom door, only to be told to "look at me" and to "walk over here" is the culprit?

 

That is a real complicated maneuver to be orchestrating at 7:23AM don't you think? The simplest explanation is usually the correct explanation. (Occam's razor)

[E050822]

^^^ Keeping in mind that the simplest explanation is usually the right explanation...

I have been saying that I was sleeping after playing on my phone for 10 or 11 minutes, whereas M just says "it's not me, man" and runs away. Hmmm...to me, I would think that my side of things is more believable. M's running away from it is a red flag...if I was guilty of doing something perverse in someone else's home and didn't want the person to know what I'd been doing, I'd run away, too! But I'm still here, and have no plans of running.

[drifter777]

^^^ Keeping in mind that the simplest explanation is usually the right explanation...

I have been saying that I was sleeping after playing on my phone for 10 or 11 minutes, whereas M just says "it's not me, man" and runs away. Hmmm...to me, I would think that my side of things is more believable. M's running away from it is a red flag...if I was guilty of doing something perverse in someone else's home and didn't want the person to know what I'd been doing, I'd run away, too! But I'm still here, and have no plans of running.

 

You're grasping at straws with this one. Doesn't mean a thing.

[E050822]

I'm not grasping at straws, I'm using common sense. When someone runs away, they are either hiding something or are ashamed of something they did.

[Realist3]

Get your ass out. You will fighting this forever as long as you are with him. There are many better fish in the sea. This one does not impress me in the least.

[BreatheForABit]

Get your ass out. You will fighting this forever as long as you are with him. There are many better fish in the sea. This one does not impress me in the least.

 

So now it's my fault that she cheated and had a quick fling and never thought she and M would get found out? I am a good fish, but good fish don't like to be trampled upon and then lied to over and over.

[aliveagain]

Your woman didn't cheat, she passed a polygraph by someone you selected and with flying colors, very hard if not impossible to do( perfect score). I bet you would have believed the polygraph if it came back that she lied. For all we know you could be some Weird Toilet Freak that just tricked 4012(people to date that read your post) of us into listening to you take a dump. Come on man, SHE DID NOT CHEAT.

[crederer]

You guys should just go on Maury and get it over with already.

[beach]

I don't see the link to the recording.

 

The way it's presented makes it seem as though he (M) was accustomed to ordering someone to suck him.

 

How long had he lived there before his incident?

 

Was there any other evidence that leads you to believe they had been intimate?

[BreatheForABit]

For all we know you could be some Weird Toilet Freak that just tricked 4012(people to date that read your post) of us into listening to you take a dump.

 

That wasn't me taking a dump. I had already left by then. Also, M taking a big sweaty one is not the focus of this thread. It is what clearly happens after that endearing moment. Did you listen further? Do you agree that M is obviously getting a BJ later on in that first clip?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Here is the second audio clip where M blares the TV super loud to mask the sounds of him walking into our bedroom and continuing what was started. You can hear (barely) behind the super loud TV our bedroom door clicking shut (it has a lock) and a few minutes later him unlocking and returning to the living room to turn down the TV. All this while someone was allegedly sleeping the whole time? Tell me how logical that sounds to you.

 

Also, I will upload the clip from about 3 hours and 2 minutes after the start of the first recording. It is roughly 2:58:30 after I had left. B wants people to hear her normal footsteps when she comes out of the bedroom at roughly 12 minutes into this clip. She says she can't walk sneakily like the person does in the first audio at the top of the thread. She also swears that this is the first time she woke up that morning, except for the part where she forgot about being on her phone during the 10 minutes after I left, which just coincidentally is the same time that M walks to near our bedroom door and says "look at me" and "walk over here".

 

Either way, here is the audio that begins at roughly 10:15AM that morning when G gets up and walks out of the bedroom about 12 minutes into this clip.

 

 

 

 

For clarity:

 

First 30:19

Second 30:19

Seventh 30:19

I use Audactiy to listen because it has good features and it's open-source freeware.

Edited July 4, 2013 by BreatheForABit

[E050822]

You guys should just go on Maury and get it over with already.

 

Lol...I've thought of doing that a few times since this all started! But B would probably say that that polygraph was inaccurate, as well. I don't know how else to prove my innocence to him.

[CarrieT]

I don't know how else to prove my innocence to him.

 

Since he has his mind made up, why bother?

 

Seriously - why haven't you just moved on from all this drama? Both of you?

 

It is obvious he is never going to believe anything other than what he has determined by his investigative tactics. He has said so. What else is there to do for you guys but call it a day and end the relationship?

[E050822]

Here is the second audio clip where M blares the TV super loud to mask the sounds of him walking into our bedroom and continuing what was started. You can hear (barely) behind the super loud TV our bedroom door clicking shut (it has a lock) and a few minutes later him unlocking and returning to the living room to turn down the TV. All this while someone was allegedly sleeping the whole time? Tell me how logical that sounds to you. QUOTE]

 

 

And to add my own bit of clarity for those reading, might I add that the door to the office and the door to our bedroom are exactly the same. Made of the same wood, has the same locking mechanism on both doors. So wouldn't that mean that it is very possible that the sound of the door shutting and locking could very well have been the office door? Especially since M walked out of the room again a few minutes later. I would think that if he had "finished what he started", and knew of the audio in the house, he wouldn't have walked out again a mere two or three minutes later. Most guys would be embarrassed by that, I'd think.

 

So, my thought is that it was the office, not the bedroom that he went into.

[E050822]

What else is there to do for you guys but call it a day and end the relationship?

 

Neither one of us want to end the relationship on a bad note, especially over something like this that I'm not guilty of doing. That's why I'm fighting for us to work it out. We have recently started talking to a relationship counselor to work on communicating with one another and, hopefully, for him to come to the realization that I am not a person who would cheat on him. Just because he has had a few relationships in the past where this had been the case, that doesn't make every woman he dates a philandering whore.

[CarrieT]

We have recently started talking to a relationship counselor to work on communicating with one another and, hopefully, for him to come to the realization that I am not a person who would cheat on him.

 

Then he should stop analyzing those sound recordings and trying to gather input from an anonymous website like this.

 

Seriously - if both of you REALLY want to move forward and are doing so with a counselor, those recordings should be destroyed.

 

The fact that he is constantly re-hashing them and has stated what he believes is the obvious, speaks volumes about being a person that can't seem to move beyond the barrier that he has created.

[beach]

I think it actually sounds like sex. Quiet sex - like the two people involved knew they needed to be as quiet as possible.

 

It may not be slurping (bj) it could be sex juices.

 

You know your gals voice and noise style - is that her?

 

Toward the end it sounds like he may be spanking someone. Several slapping noises.

Edited July 5, 2013 by beach

[Iama]

Girl you sound guiltyyyyy.

 

The whole fact that you're going through such a long range of hypothesis to prove you innocent... I'ts like you're trying to make another story up.

 

But the story is that one. You cheated. You got caught. You don't wanna admit being wrong cuz you have a huge ego....

 

If you hadn't cheated. You would have been like WTF. I didn't do it and that's it. Take it or leave it. You wouldn't have even tried to "interpret" the audio, cuz your consciousness would have been clean and you would have had NOTHING to prove.

 

Get outta here and out of the poor man's life.

 

And no, this was not your first time ****ing him, given that you did without any talking or convo...... I bet it must have happened at least 2-3 other times.

 

Edit: Oh and before I forget. Was it turning you on, that you were ****ing this good looking low life in your husbands house?

 

Edit2: Oh and the fact that you're fat makes everything clearer. You probably never had a good looking guy in you. That's why the crave.

Edited July 5, 2013 by Iama