Diesel Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 I know this is really really bad and i should haven't done that. I needed money very badly my dad is kinda strick , he won't give me money when i need them. He think lots of money will make my bad or w/e.. All my friends they got lots of money , they can buy anything they wanr but i'm the only one..I'm not in the position to earn money by myself. My dad was sleeping and i opened his cupboard and took $100 from him. He doesnt know becouse he havent counted the money but i still feel bad Do you think this is totally wrong ? I'm feelin really bad couse i'm scared my dad will kick my ass and will leave me.. I know he's gonna catch me oneday I'm really scared Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 do you still have the 100$ or a part of them? (and, how old are you?) Coming clean is the very best thing to do. If you still have the dough it will be easier. Link to post Share on other sites
Dakini Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Originally posted by Diesel and i opened his cupboard and took $100 from him. He doesnt know becouse he havent counted the money but i still feel bad Do you think this is totally wrong ? I'm feelin really bad couse i'm scared my dad will kick my ass and will leave me.. I know he's gonna catch me oneday I'm really scared What did you use the money for? What specifically do you mean by "kick my ass" and "will leave me"? Do you actually mean that he will physically threaten you and / or abandon you? Please clarify. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Diesel Posted October 17, 2004 Author Share Posted October 17, 2004 Yes i still have the money ( sorry i can't tell you why i needed them ) and i'm 15 years old. Dakini - I meant to say that he has given me several warnings before and if he finds out i have stolen money from him he'll kick me from the home as i told you he is very Strick There is still a way i can keep the money back in the cupboard but i dont want to couse i really need them badly Link to post Share on other sites
Dakini Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Well, it is a bit hard to advise you without the full situation. I suppose you just have to ask yourself what you want more: a roof over your head or whatever you need to purchase with that $100. You can PM me if you want to tell me something you feel you can't post. Link to post Share on other sites
Adunaphel Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Yes i still have the money Great! Put the money back as soon as possible. If you really need it *that* badly, explain the situation to your dad. I needed money very badly my dad is kinda strick , he won't give me money when i need them. He think lots of money will make my bad or w/e.. Ther is a lot of difference between giving your son 'a lot of money' and not giving him money when he needs it! Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Stealing isn't okay. While you've said that you don't want to disclose why you need the money, I should think it would have to be fairly urgent that you have it for you to have stolen from your Dad. I understand that you've said your Dad is strick, however that doesn't make stealing from him okay. Obviously your Dad provides a home, clothing and food for you and for what ever reason you may feel that it would be your Dads opinion that it wasn't essential for you to have 100 dollars. I would suggest looking at this as objectivly as you can and determine if the money is something you REALLY need OR if the money is for something you really want.. there is a difference. Can you talk to your Mom about this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Diesel Posted October 17, 2004 Author Share Posted October 17, 2004 Originally posted by Merin2 Stealing isn't okay. While you've said that you don't want to disclose why you need the money, I should think it would have to be fairly urgent that you have it for you to have stolen from your Dad. I understand that you've said your Dad is strick, however that doesn't make stealing from him okay. Obviously your Dad provides a home, clothing and food for you and for what ever reason you may feel that it would be your Dads opinion that it wasn't essential for you to have 100 dollars. I would suggest looking at this as objectivly as you can and determine if the money is something you REALLY need OR if the money is for something you really want.. there is a difference. Can you talk to your Mom about this? I cannot tell her , she'll take back the money and tell my DAD. the only reoson why i stole the money wasnt to spend them on ciggaretes or other silly things. I stole them becouse i had to pay my Cable net fees and others fees. My father wont pay for anything he dont even wants me to surf internet. I dont know what's wrong with him he is really strick when it comes to money Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Originally posted by Diesel I cannot tell her , she'll take back the money and tell my DAD. the only reoson why i stole the money wasnt to spend them on ciggaretes or other silly things. I stole them becouse i had to pay my Cable net fees and others fees. My father wont pay for anything he dont even wants me to surf internet. I dont know what's wrong with him he is really strick when it comes to money How does your Cable Net Fee usually get paid? Link to post Share on other sites
honey2005 Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Maybe your family isn't as well off as you think. It could be that money is tight in your household and your father is trying to save it for very important things, like food, medical bills, etc. I stole them becouse i had to pay my Cable net fees and others fees Maybe if Cable Internet is too expense for you father to pay, you could downgrade to dial-up. You won't get the great speed, but at least you'll be online, and you won't have to steal from your father. Link to post Share on other sites
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