bamaguy20 Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Been broken up with my girlfriend of 2 years, whom I thought I was going to marry, for 8 months..broke up on valentines day.......but like i said..its been 8 m onths and im still not completly over her, as i still think about her almost everday..not for extended periods of time. just briefly wonder what shes doing, or if shes with another guy...gives me a small knot in my stomach, but nothing major like it used to be...ive been pretty much happy, have met and hooked up with girls since her, have a few potential prospects right now, so im on the right track i believe...but the problem is, will this feeling/wonering/wanting her back be here forever..she was my first love, as i was hers, but i thought it would be gone by now. Even at night, I find myself dreaming about her all night long...sometimes its us getting back together, sometimes its finding out shes with another guy, but always something...this happens to me quite a bit..is this normal??? And when/what will it take for these feelings to subside completly..i feel like i have "plateaud" in the sense things were getting better for me emotionally, and now the dont seem to be going anywhere..better or worse....thanks in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
Merin Posted October 17, 2004 Share Posted October 17, 2004 Hang in there:) As you've said, it seems you're on the right track to getting over things.. you're out meeting new people and staying busy... I know 8 months in awhile to have been broke up.. but know that it isn't uncommon or abnormal for a lot of people to not be over a relationship that had lasted quite some time, meant a lot to them, was significant (In your case she was your first love) and ended. IMHO eventually yes you will come to terms with the break up and be able to completely move forward in your life and persue other things and people that interest you. Good Luck;) Link to post Share on other sites
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