babyb3 Posted June 29, 2013 Share Posted June 29, 2013 The guy I'm dating still talks to a girl he likes. Which I don't mind as long as it's appropriate. He says he talks about his depression with her. However, my friend recently added him on Facebook (I don't have one). And she saw he wrote on one of her pictures "It's good to see you smile". That it was edited at 3AM. I'm a little scared he might like her. Advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Iloveit Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 You can always be upfront about it and ask him. Just don't be like one of those overly attached, jealous, crazy girlfriends. Approach him in a calm, somewhat concerned manner and take it from there. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 The guy I'm dating still talks to a girl he likes. Which I don't mind as long as it's appropriate. He says he talks about his depression with her. However, my friend recently added him on Facebook (I don't have one). And she saw he wrote on one of her pictures "It's good to see you smile". That it was edited at 3AM. I'm a little scared he might like her. Advice? Has he actually told you he likes her? Or is that just your assumption? (I'm Not saying you don't have a valid reason to believe that) These two bolded parts are a little contradictory. Does he describe her as just a friend, or has he admitted to having a crush on her? Link to post Share on other sites
todreaminblue Posted July 1, 2013 Share Posted July 1, 2013 The guy I'm dating still talks to a girl he likes. Which I don't mind as long as it's appropriate. He says he talks about his depression with her. However, my friend recently added him on Facebook (I don't have one). And she saw he wrote on one of her pictures "It's good to see you smile". That it was edited at 3AM. I'm a little scared he might like her. Advice? I think you should eb hoenst with hwo you feel, if you are insecure explain to him rationally why you are....... i dotn think writing its good to see you smile is a flirtatious comment its caring.....if your boyfriend is the caring type then it would be natural for him to say this......maybe she has been down or going through a rough spot and your boyfriend is just being a friend to her.....edited at 3 am though.......maybe he is going through a rough patch too....obviously not sleeping when he should be......your friend is being a little specific though(times he is on face book are now known to you and exactly what is being written)....are you asking her to spy on him.....that isnt really good girlfriend behavior if you have a question ask him not get your friend to find out....you are getting second hand info and allowing it to process through irrationality and lack of insight and maybe even personal bias from your friend can come into it...not a good idea....when you can go straight to the person who you are worried about............deb 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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