greenlove Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 Recently my bf has been tied up with skool, work, and family. And I can't help but be mean and bitter with him b/c I feel neglected. This is not the 1st time but b/c of certain difficulties in our life its affecting me more then usual. You see I can't help but express anger to him but what I really feel is sad. He's a dumbass I tell you, hehe. I love him very much but its hard to get pass these feelings. Maybe its just the PMS. Link to post Share on other sites
dnm1010 Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 my bf goes to school 4 hours away. he organized his schedule so he spends a lot of time with me... he comes hom on thursday late at night and leaves mondays at night... but during the 3 days hes at school he is enrolled in 21 credit hours so he is so busy and sometimes he doesnt talk to me and i get real upset. but i told him that im upset without him and it makes me in a bad mood and then when he comes home its all better. and it makes him want to graduate sooner because he wants us to get married already and not live so far away. tell him how you feel. Link to post Share on other sites
luvbutterflai Posted October 20, 2004 Share Posted October 20, 2004 okie girlie~ I know exactly how you feel. I used to have this problem. Sometimes, it's your PMS..because I realize that @ certain times I feel a little more irritated than usual. You honestly really truly should NOT give him a hard time for something that could possibly better the lives of you both. If you two are serious and planning a life in the future, give him a break really. Do you trust him? Why do you get so irritated? I used to ask myself these questions. I know my answer. At the time I was finished with the quarter in school so therefore, for circumstances I had no school for two months and work was very slow. I felt useless and had nothing else to do. I occupied my life with thoughts of him .. and when I called he was always busy...irritation came into play..on mine and his life. You should give you boyfriend a break, mention that you are proud of him doing well for himself and tell him about your life... btw, how long distance are you two.. my boyfriend and I are a whole nation a part...we're doing well since I'm not psycho phone call girlfriend anymore Link to post Share on other sites
Author greenlove Posted October 22, 2004 Author Share Posted October 22, 2004 I do appreciate your replies. It's nice having others that can relate to your crazy behavior. I realize how silly I was being and I did talk to him…everything is better now. I think starting my PMS had a little extra to do with it – crazy mood swings you know. Luvbutterflai, you asked how far apart we were; well I’m in Toronto he’s from Pittsburgh. So, it’s a whole nation apart, but he can get to T.O in 5-7 hours depending on traffic and the delay at the borders. I have been in this relationship for 4 years so I’m frequent traveler and can tell you I've been through the pyscho phone calling stage as well...so no worries. Link to post Share on other sites
luvbutterflai Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 hehe...do you ever get those feelings about wondering about his fidelity in the relationship? Is it normal? Since you've done this for several years you have the upperhand ^_^ and do you ever feel the way you did when you don't get enough sleep also? Because that's also when I get them besides PMS...grrr...hate those days~sometimes I feel like I should wonder about him..gosh... reply is appreciated Link to post Share on other sites
Author greenlove Posted October 26, 2004 Author Share Posted October 26, 2004 Do I wonder about infidelity? Nah! I’m pretty secure in my relationship. To have lasted as long as it has you need trust and I don’t really ever doubt him because he shows me I’m the only one he wants and loves by his words and actions. I think I feel the way I did on my period when I can’t sleep b/c I’m staying up thinking about why this basterd couldn’t pick up the phone and call, hehe. But other then that the only other worries I might have is about his friends…I don’t know them all and he often tells me some of them encourage him to cheat on me. It’s a guy thing right, how will she ever know? But he tells me these things and who says what, so its hard to distrust him. I'm sure some doubt is always going to be normal. Link to post Share on other sites
loverkawaiionna Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 I know exactly how you're feeling, I was actually about to post something with the exact same concern lol you see, my boyfriend is also very tied up in school, and I'm feeling there is a lack of commitment and respect on his part.. i do so much for him.. call him, email him, mail him letters and pictures... not too often though, i dont want to bombard him and get obsessive, but he hasn't talked to me in almost a week now... lemmi know how it goes, i'm in the same dilemma! Link to post Share on other sites
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