White men that like Indian women

[Seductive]

Yes or no, if you aren't scared of dating an Indian woman. That's all what I want to know. This isn't a b*tch thread.

 

Thank you.

[rocketman122]

Yes or no, if you aren't scared of dating an Indian woman. That's all what I want to know. This isn't a b*tch thread.

 

Thank you.

 

scared, no. attracted to Indian women, no. want to, no. I like really pale skinned girls. a lot of pretty Indian women. but im simply not attracted to them. hope I dont offend.

[Weezy1973]

In general, no, I'm not attracted to Indian women. That being said, at the moment, one of the women I work with is Indian and I find her completely attractive. I guess it depends on the person and not the ethnicity.

[Seductive]

Rocket man-you didnt offend. I'm just curious. As I said in another post, I find it interesting how white bisexual and lesbian woman seem to like ethnic women. I did grow up hearing that white men only like their own kind anyway, but white women seem to be more open.

Edited July 5, 2013 by Seductive

[GorillaTheater]

My 19-year-old son (white) has a marked preference for Indian women, for whatever that may be worth.

[Seductive]

My 19-year-old son (white) has a marked preference for Indian women, for whatever that may be worth.

 

Does he date them?

[GorillaTheater]

Yes. With probably as much mixed success as anybody else. He has run into some cultural reluctance on the part of some of the girls' families, and seems to do better if the families are at least somewhat "Americanized".

[Seductive]

Yes. With probably as much mixed success as anybody else. He has run into some cultural reluctance on the part of some of the girls' families, and seems to do better if the families are at least somewhat "Americanized".

 

That's cool. your son is just one nineteen year old and I'm a good 10 years older than him. If you read my thread in the gender and sexual identity thread, I'm trying to gather all information on whether to no longer consider white males as potential dating candidates. Given that I live in areas where whites dominate, that might be a challenge. But, there's no reason to waste time on someone that doesn't like you.

[fortyninethousand322]

Yes or no, if you aren't scared of dating an Indian woman. That's all what I want to know. This isn't a b*tch thread.

 

Thank you.

 

I'm always scared they're not interested in me because I'm white. Like, they only want to date Indian guys.

 

I find Indian women attractive. I also find Latina women, black women, and Middle Eastern women attractive too. But yeah, Indian women are attractive.

 

The last two dates I've been on: one Indian woman, one Pakistani woman.

 

Are Indian women open to dating white men, in your experience OP?

[Seductive]

I'm always scared they're not interested in me because I'm white. Like, they only want to date Indian guys.

 

I find Indian women attractive. I also find Latina women, black women, and Middle Eastern women attractive too. But yeah, Indian women are attractive.

 

The last two dates I've been on: one Indian woman, one Pakistani woman.

 

Are Indian women open to dating white men, in your experience OP?

 

Yes. I know quite a few that are married to white men. Some are scared, because of parental restrictions and being called a slut. I think times are changing where it's not difficult to find an Indian woman that's open to dating other races. I did have a serious white boyfriend a few years ago, but we got a lot of dirty looks. He was from Europe and not a mainstream American.

[fortyninethousand322]

Yes. I know quite a few that are married to white men. Some are scared, because of parental restrictions and being called a slut. I think times are changing where it's not difficult to find an Indian woman that's open to dating other races. I did have a serious white boyfriend a few years ago, but we got a lot of dirty looks. He was from Europe and not a mainstream American.

 

So the next time there's an Indian woman that I'm interested in, I should just go for it and not worry about it?

 

How did your parents feel about you dating a white guy? Did they care? Did you care?

 

And that's unfortunate about the dirty looks. People who don't approve should just mind their own business...

[The Shepherd]

I'm trying to gather all information on whether to no longer consider white males as potential dating candidates.

I don't think it is wise to exclude an entire ethnic group altogether based on other peoples' opinions. Be open to anyone that approaches you that you find attractive.

 

You should worry about the dirty looks only if people developed the power to kill with looks.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Some Indian women are among the most beautiful I've ever seen. Still, I don't choose to date them.

[aj22one]

haha my wife is south asian (her family is from Pakistan). I've always had a thing for indian and middle eastern women. Dated them exclusively my whole life haha. No one ever gave us dirty looks haha

[thefooloftheyear]

I find many Indian women very attractive..

 

There is one that works at the local bank here that I would do unmentionable things to.

 

That being said, it just becomes difficult sometimes to overcome the cultural differences if the R becomes serious...I probably wouldnt get too serious with one as a result.. That doesnt mean I think any less of them, so please dont misinterpret my intentions.

 

And I hate Indian food!!! Sorry...

 

TFY

[The Shepherd]

^^^Yes, things do get tougher if you add religious, cultural and other differences.

[aj22one]

^^^Yes, things do get tougher if you add religious, cultural and other differences.

 

They can, but they don't have to. haha

 

Toughest thing to me is getting up early to cook my wife breakfast during Ramadan haha.

[The Shepherd]

They can, but they don't have to. haha

 

Toughest thing to me is getting up early to cook my wife breakfast during Ramadan haha.

Yes. I think education makes a lot of difference to how people think. I am a Hindu from India and I have lots of Muslim friends (from India and from other countries too) and I had some of them as roommates. I have been to a Church, I have been to a Mosque and prayed along with my friends during Ramadan and I have lived with one of my dad's Muslim friend's family for one year and they have looked after me like I am one of their own children.

[Feelin Frisky]

Indians are a handsome people. Indian woman can be very appealing visually. I'm not all that keen on the gold and the dots and definitely not the materialism that is now gripping modern Indian culture since their economic boom began. But there is no reason to fear of dating and Indian chick as long as she doesn't have a traditional family who object and go to extremes to tell you where you need to go.

[Seductive]

So the next time there's an Indian woman that I'm interested in, I should just go for it and not worry about it?

 

How did your parents feel about you dating a white guy? Did they care? Did you care?

 

And that's unfortunate about the dirty looks. People who don't approve should just mind their own business...

 

How old are these Indian girls? It depends on the age. my mom didn't like me dating a white man at all. She said they aren't serious and that they dump women after four months. The reality was that my white ex was more serious than the Indian men I went on dates Aside from him, he was the only white boyfriend I had.I haven't had that many boyfriends to begin with. People do ask why I take time when I'm single. I don't see the point in hopping from relationship to relationship.

Edited July 5, 2013 by Seductive

[thefooloftheyear]

How old are these Indian girls? It depends on the age. my mom didn't like me dating a white man at all. She said they aren't serious and that they dump women after four months. The reality was that my white ex was more serious than the Indian men I went on dates Aside from him, he was the only white boyfriend I had.

 

Shes dead wrong...I usually wait until the 5th month before I dump them..

 

Im only kidding...Its hot outside..

 

 

Do you live in the USA? I ask because it seems like there is some agenda here that FORCES cultural, racial and religious diversity down everyone's throat. I dont get it? If others want it, fine...But I see absolutely nothing bigoted about wanting to date/marry only within a chosen religious, cultural or ?? Your mom cares about you and wants what she thinks is best for you...Thats all..

 

I wish you well..

 

TFY

[fortyninethousand322]

How old are these Indian girls? It depends on the age. my mom didn't like me dating a white man at all. She said they aren't serious and that they dump women after four months. The reality was that my white ex was more serious than the Indian men I went on dates Aside from him, he was the only white boyfriend I had.I haven't had that many boyfriends to begin with. People do ask why I take time when I'm single. I don't see the point in hopping from relationship to relationship.

 

In their 20s to early 30s.

 

I have no intention of dumping anyone after 4 months. I mean, unless they broke it off first.

[Seductive]

In their 20s to early 30s.

 

I have no intention of dumping anyone after 4 months. I mean, unless they broke it off first.

 

I think that age range is more open, especially in the early 30's. Once you hit 30, you're not considered that desirable in the Indian marriage market. So, people start to branch out.

 

Thefooloftheyear-I have lived in the USA all my life and grew up in mostly white racist neighborhoods. You would be surprised if you heard some of the mean things that white teenage boys have done. My white ex helped me realize that not all white men are necessarily racist, but I don't know if he's the exception or the norm.

 

My mom wants an Indian man, because she thinks it's the best guarantee that I will get married. She doesn't like the idea of having to "wait and see", and having to answer all of her friends. I did tell my mom "If I can't get married to a man, I'm going to go to women". She didn't talk to me for two weeks.

Edited July 5, 2013 by Seductive

[thefooloftheyear]

I think that age range is more open, especially in the early 30's. Once you hit 30, you're not considered that desirable in the Indian marriage market. So, people start to branch out.

 

Thefooloftheyear-I have lived in the USA all my life and grew up in mostly white racist neighborhoods. You would be surprised if you heard some of the mean things that white teenage boys have done. My white ex helped me realize that not all white men are necessarily racist, but I don't know if he's the exception or the norm.

 

My mom wants an Indian man, because she thinks it's the best guarantee that I will get married. She doesn't like the idea of having to "wait and see", and having to answer all of her friends. I did tell my mom "If I can't get married to a man, I'm going to go to women". She didn't talk to me for two weeks.

 

 

Well...Thats unfortunate...Its one thing to want to date/marry within your own, but its something entirely different when it becomes racist and mean spirited..They are just a bunch of narrow minded jackasses..You will find that most arent like that....

 

That being said...

 

Do what you feel is right..Be kind to your mom, like I said before she only has your best interests at heart..And lastly, its ok to want to be in a relationship, but dont let it define you..Its amazing how when you "forget about it" the right one winds up falling into your lap...

 

I wish you all the best

 

TFY

[Seductive]

Why are Indian people so insecure about this? I have seen many threads from Indian people asking things like this.

 

I don't mean to be insecure, but I'm trying to be logical. Making a decision about who you date is very important. I am open to dating hispanic, black, middle-eastern and East/SE Asian men, if the right fit comes. It's just that I live and work in a heavily white area, and haven't had the opportunity to date other types of minorities.

 

In my experience, most of the Indians I know have been told that white people don't like us or want us. So, I think that's why Indians ask to see how accurate this idea is or if it can be challenged.