williams Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 ok, I am married-so don't freak out yet. I have a friend (guy friend) and we have been friends for years and have become good friends, we talk about everything and we went out the other day-as friends to run some errands and he was very much a gentleman. he always says how he wishes he could find someone like me, when he leaves me now he will give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. Thats all, nothing has happened. what I am wondering is what is he really feeling-he always just lets me talk about things and he listens and never says anything out of line or acts out of line. I found it odd that he wanted to go with me the other day-knowing it would just me us two-I feel like when he looks at me there is something he wants to say-what do you all think he is feeling? Link to post Share on other sites
bluetuesday Posted October 19, 2004 Share Posted October 19, 2004 if you're wondering if he would like to be more than friends with you, the answer is we don't know what the answer is. but from what you've given us, he seems to me just like he wants to be a good friend. he lets you talk, he's there for you, he likes spending time with you. this is what friends do. the good ones. until he makes a move, or goes from looking like he's going to tell you something to actually telling you something, you've got nothing. it's not unusual for friends to be tactile, i'm a holdy-handy, kissy-cheeky person with my male friends and it means nothing other than i wanna hold your hand or kiss your cheek 'cause you're special to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author williams Posted October 19, 2004 Author Share Posted October 19, 2004 I agree, there have been telephone conversations such as he wished I had a sister or if I needed a weekend away he would go with me and just the looks--its just confusing--I am just so sad and I feel like my spirit is broken and I know I have to make some changes. Link to post Share on other sites
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