Badger123 Posted July 4, 2013 Share Posted July 4, 2013 (edited) Hi, I'm a long time reader of this forum, first registered now. I've been with this girl on and off for nearly half a year now. First we had 1,5-2 great months, then she freaked out and dumped me because it was moving to fast - then regretting the decision three days later and begging to take her back. The same thing happened again a month or so later, with me saying enough is enough and going NC for a month and a half, despite her having told her mother about me. A couple of weeks ago she called me and wanted to meet up for lunch. I was hungover and wanted food so I decided I could go. It ended up in a full date, with her sleeping over and skipping school the day after to stay(she's 25). When she left I was still done with her in my mind even though the day was great and the chemistry seemed to be all there etc. She sent me multiple snap chats (that's how she initiates it seems) the week after - I got a day off and decided to go to my parents summer house, but since it was mid week, no one could go. I invited her over the lack of better options, she agreed and again it was wonderful, she spent the night etc. I've been sort of cold with her for the past couple of weeks. She invited me to a party she was hosting and I said I might come, but I didn't. She called me promptly the day after to ask if we should hang out. She left a couple of accessories here and retrieved them on Tuesday (make out session and hugging too). Since her birthday is this upcoming Saturday and she's planning to spend it with her family, I called her and asked if she wanted to come with me to a nice restaurant on Tuesday. She responded with "why are you doing this?" And I didn't really know how to take that. A couple of points should be made clear - - We have sex most of the time we meet up, but she still comes over during her period etc when she won't have it - I know she's been interested in other guys as well and that might not have worked out - She has never apologized to me or asked to take me back this last time. It has sort of just happened. - When she came back she has spoken about the future, wanting to see pictures of me as a kid. She uses the phrase 'we' - It always seems like she's enjoying herself when we are together - She came out of a broken relationship a year ago, but I think it might have been complicated for longer than that Any advice? I'm not sure if I should pursue or just cut my losses. My gut feeling isn't helping me at all here. Or maybe I'm just being a wuzz for not asking her directly... Edited July 4, 2013 by Badger123 Link to post Share on other sites
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