Beaglesngoldens Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 (edited) So I have just started working for this business called Nu Skin and there is this intensive goal achievement course I attended for the first time. I meet this guy because that time, I was depressed about not being able to see this guy I had feelings for. Ok I have lots of problems. so while attending this intensive goal course, I was able to let go but then the guy I fell for already has a bitch. He's Thai and doesn't speak much English but I was able to get his phone number. However, the more and more I think about them it breaks my heart and his bitch gf and I work at the same office. I have called him a couple of times and we agreed to go out for dinner but that didn't happen. Everyday I would send him messages on the Line application. A couple of days ago, I just lost it and sent him angry messages like an axe gun bomb etc. I even wrote him in Thai that his bitch gf should go to hell and die. He wrote back saying he didn't wanna stay in touch with me except that I'm going to see him again in August for the intensive goal achievement course. I did apologize to him by text after realizing im going to lose him. Surely his bitch will be there too and I'm the one that's already in a lot of heartache but trying not to think about them. I really like him and want him to like me. What can I do?? PS everybody is getting married has a bf or gf and I feel so ****ty!!!! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Edited July 7, 2013 by Beaglesngoldens Link to post Share on other sites
ForeverHopeful1 Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 I'm scratching my head trying to figure out whether she is a bitch or you are. Is she even a.bitch at all, or is she just a bitch because she has the man you want? You sound like a ****ing brat. Get over yourself and find a single man. Maybe then, you would be getting married like everyone else. If you pick unavailable men, that's your own fault. If you pick available men, they're available to get married, unlike men who are already married/taken. Why on earth were you calling and messaging daily? Why did you think you had ANY right to say these things about the woman he loves????? Sick. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BreatheForABit Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 (edited) the guy I fell for already has a bitch. He's Thai and doesn't speak much English but I was able to get his phone number. However, the more and more I think about them it breaks my heart and his bitch gf and I work at the same office. This is an example of the 80/20 rule in effect. 80% of women will only ever consider about 20% of the men. This is why this girl wants a married/taken man, most ladies want who other ladies want. Go for a dude that is available! Give a normal guy who doesn't already have tons of women after him a chance for once! Edited July 7, 2013 by BreatheForABit 1 Link to post Share on other sites
SadHumiliated Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 So I have just started working for this business called Nu Skin and there is this intensive goal achievement course I attended for the first time. I meet this guy because that time, I was depressed about not being able to see this guy I had feelings for. Ok I have lots of problems. so while attending this intensive goal course, I was able to let go but then the guy I fell for already has a bitch. He's Thai and doesn't speak much English but I was able to get his phone number. However, the more and more I think about them it breaks my heart and his bitch gf and I work at the same office. I have called him a couple of times and we agreed to go out for dinner but that didn't happen. Everyday I would send him messages on the Line application. A couple of days ago, I just lost it and sent him angry messages like an axe gun bomb etc. I even wrote him in Thai that his bitch gf should go to hell and die. He wrote back saying he didn't wanna stay in touch with me except that I'm going to see him again in August for the intensive goal achievement course. I did apologize to him by text after realizing im going to lose him. Surely his bitch will be there too and I'm the one that's already in a lot of heartache but trying not to think about them. I really like him and want him to like me. What can I do?? PS everybody is getting married has a bf or gf and I feel so ****ty!!!! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa She's not the bitch, you are for trying to get with a taken guy. You never had him. You were at most a sidepiece. Boundaries. Learn them. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Yeah, you sound pretty awful from that OP. Not only are you going after a taken guy, but you are insulting his girlfriend to his face? What planet are you from where you think that is acceptable behavior? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
nescafe1982 Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 I'm not sure you *should* go find a single guy, OP. Your message sounds like you need to work through some of your own issues before you get involved with anyone at all. Boyfriends are not property. You know that, right? They aren't something you collect, take from someone else, or check off your list of stuff to do. Relationships are complex affairs that require us to be at our psychological and emotional best in order to maximize success. I'd advise getting yourself right before you get too worked up over any guy, and completely forget about this guy in particular. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beaglesngoldens Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 Ok I've been reading all of your replies and clearly you guys aren't my friends or know me for that matter. I deserve him just like any other girl deserves a guy. I'm not going to let go of him. Thanks for your un supportive advices. You guys are all *******s!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beaglesngoldens Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 It sounds like you guys are the ****in brats here and the bitches!!!! So not helpful!!!!! You guys all suck and deserve to go to hell!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beaglesngoldens Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 FYI, this intensive goal course is supposed to help me with my issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Ok I've been reading all of your replies and clearly you guys aren't my friends or know me for that matter. I deserve him just like any other girl deserves a guy. I'm not going to let go of him. Thanks for your un supportive advices. You guys are all *******s!!! You can't let go of him because you never had him. And you seem to have some severe anger and emotion problems. I hope you are 14 or something. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LilGirlandOW Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 OP, I'm the OW... I've been the OW for 10mnths now, we're in love, amazing chemistry and passion. But I'm still the OW, and he's my MM. Wanna be in a relationship where you follow a crumb trail such as I do, go ahead but sister we all deserve better, I wish I knew then what I know now and hadnt fallen head over heels in love with my MM, I bet I'd be a much happier person. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 FYI, this intensive goal course is supposed to help me with my issues. If your goal is to be a stalker, you've passed the course. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 FYI, this intensive goal course is supposed to help me with my issues. That is probably a lost cause. Link to post Share on other sites
Betterthanthis13 Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 Do you have any thoughts in general on guys that cheat on their girlfriends? (Forget about the fact that you think she is a bitch for a moment) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 You work for a pyramid scheme in Nu skin products and you have designs on someone you can barely communicate with but is worried that his GF is a bitch? Lady you have more problems than a Math Book.... Hope you don't graduate to selling Ginsu Knives next...lol 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 Ok I've been reading all of your replies and clearly you guys aren't my friends or know me for that matter. I deserve him just like any other girl deserves a guy. I'm not going to let go of him. Thanks for your un supportive advices. You guys are all *******s!!! You are quite welcome! I enjoy watching trainwrecks so please keep us posted:) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 So I have just started working for this business called Nu Skin and there is this intensive goal achievement course I attended for the first time. I meet this guy because that time, I was depressed about not being able to see this guy I had feelings for. Ok I have lots of problems. so while attending this intensive goal course, I was able to let go but then the guy I fell for already has a bitch. He's Thai and doesn't speak much English but I was able to get his phone number. However, the more and more I think about them it breaks my heart and his bitch gf and I work at the same office. I have called him a couple of times and we agreed to go out for dinner but that didn't happen. Everyday I would send him messages on the Line application. A couple of days ago, I just lost it and sent him angry messages like an axe gun bomb etc. I even wrote him in Thai that his bitch gf should go to hell and die. He wrote back saying he didn't wanna stay in touch with me except that I'm going to see him again in August for the intensive goal achievement course. I did apologize to him by text after realizing im going to lose him. Surely his bitch will be there too and I'm the one that's already in a lot of heartache but trying not to think about them. I really like him and want him to like me. What can I do?? PS everybody is getting married has a bf or gf and I feel so ****ty!!!! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Wow, it doesn't sound like this guy has an ounce of interest in you. You should move on to someone who wants you. Link to post Share on other sites
The Way I Am Posted July 10, 2013 Share Posted July 10, 2013 Imagine this guy is your boyfriend. Now imagine you've been dating for awhile and meet a guy who seems interested in you. You maybe kind of like this other guy. Now imagine this guy tells you your boyfriend should go to help and die. Would that endear you to the new guy or make you question his sanity and mental stability? If you ever had a chance with this guy, you don't now. You should move on and work on yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
CherryT Posted July 10, 2013 Share Posted July 10, 2013 You don't deserve him. You need to work on yourself. If his GF knew about you and what you're trying to do and has kept calm and trusting with her man.. she's a saint. I'm not a jealous partner and could care less when a girl hits on my bf without knowing he's already taken. However, if a girl knew him and I were together and tried to pull this sh*t? I wouldn't be as nice. Have some damn self-respect for yourself and don't try to break up a relationship. If he wanted YOU, he'd be with YOU. And obviously after you insulted his GF he wants nothing to do with you. He CHOSE her. Get a grip and get some help. Take our word for it, you have something wrong with you and you need help. Link to post Share on other sites
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