newyorkhappy Posted July 7, 2013 Share Posted July 7, 2013 Before we go on, I already feel like a scum for even having an affair. That EKG said, recently got rejected/dumped by my married AP for another man she rather have an affair with. I posted about this and pursued NC. Last night, after two weeks of NC I get a text from her w pictures of her going out with one of my friends and basically grinding on him at a party. I texted back" nice" and that's it. It was not as if I initiated NC. She stopped calling/textig me two weeks ago and thus, I assumed NC had started. So I didn't contact her either. Now I am a head case. A) the more NC prolongs, the more I miss her. B) the more NC prolongs, the more I feel she thinks I am a little b**ch for not manning up and staying friends w her. C) this text last night from her confused the heck out of me. Mind is racing at 100 mph. I know by re-initiating a emotional connection, I have nothing to gain and everything to lose. But at the same time, I want to seem like the bigger man and just forgive and forget. She deserves happiness. Whether that be w her having an affair w OM behind her husbands back. Just don't know where I stand in all this. Feel like a total jackass Link to post Share on other sites
It-is-what-it-is. Posted July 11, 2013 Share Posted July 11, 2013 She sounds like a bitxh. Vindictive and mean. There are plenty of available women out there, don't waste your time on a woman who multi cheats. Link to post Share on other sites
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