Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH. Does anyone really believe this Horse**** ? It is very irritating and all to prevelent on this site. Well, maybe you won't. All this crap about " look after yourself " and someone great will come along. It is from Hollywood films and not with anything based in reality and the real World. Well I hate to tell you this but you may not find anyone better and all the trips to the Gym and " improving " yourself maybe a pile of crap. Just balancing the Bull**** posted on here. Have a great Day. Zammo. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
mtnbiker3000 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 I actually disagree with you 100%. And I have a feeling you are about to get blasted with reponses as well Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 Post one for the prosection. I am sure I could find hundreds on here if I could be arsed. "Time will heal you and you will find someone better trust me you will. " AAARRRGGGGHHHH !!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 I actually disagree with you 100%. And I have a feeling you are about to get blasted with reponses as well Why. I worry this site is just full of people who actually believe this. Well for many people they will not find anyone else no matter how much " self improvement " they make and for some no matter how many times they go to the " Gym ", pretty much the only thing every trotted out on here they will not find " someone better " HORSESH*T !! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH. Does anyone really believe this Horse**** ? It is very irritating and all to prevelent on this site. Well, maybe you won't. All this crap about " look after yourself " and someone great will come along. It is from Hollywood films and not with anything based in reality and the real World. Well I hate to tell you this but you may not find anyone better and all the trips to the Gym and " improving " yourself maybe a pile of crap. Just balancing the Bull**** posted on here. Have a great Day. Zammo. Yes, maybe you won't. Unfortunately, it may be a reality for many. Trips to the gym and improving yourself don't guarantee someone better. It just makes you better. If someone comes along the way, great. And if no one comes along, it doesn't mean you shrivel up and let yourself waste away, instead you keep going on at being the best that you can be, for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 Yes, maybe you won't. Unfortunately, it may be a reality for many. Trips to the gym and improving yourself don't guarantee someone better. It just makes you better. If someone comes along the way, great. And if no one comes along, it doesn't mean you shrivel up and let yourself waste away, instead you keep going on at being the best that you can be, for yourself. Yes " the Gym " is not the Holy Grail as many on here think. Just please stop the " you will find someone better " mantra. It is quite pathetic really. Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 For some of the folks here, I don't think it would be possible to find anyone worse. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 For some of the folks here, I don't think it would be possible to find anyone worse. Well that is not true, is it ? If it were the case they would not be on here spilling their guts would they ? Link to post Share on other sites
mtnbiker3000 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Well, as I've posted, for me the gym is really not that important. Rather a mental workout where I am trying to identify and break patterns that lead to the same or similar results in my RS's. Therefore, I KNOW that I will be better off the harder I 'workout' and my future RS(s) will be better. There is no doubt in my mind. None! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 It's not about finding someone better. It's about finding the courage to move on and getting better. Being fine alone. Surviving. And after surviving maybe even enjoying living. And if one enjoys living, they attract partners like flies and honey. And just like you say, even if they don't find someone, it won't matter, because they're happy anyways. God does not prepare secret trick or trades - takes a bad lover in exchange for a better one. That is the truth. You need to do that by yourself. Because you chose that bad lover to begin with. So you need to get over him/her. Do the hard work. And then when that's done, start working some more at becoming a better person and looking for a good partner. Lotta work out there!!! 5 Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 oh, and guess what... if you think you're never gonna find another lover, or a better lover, or a worse lover... or no lover... in all these cases, you are right :-) !!! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
tinker683 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 I feel like Zammo is trolling 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Yes " the Gym " is not the Holy Grail as many on here think. Just please stop the " you will find someone better " mantra. It is quite pathetic really. "The Gym" and finding someone better are not complementary to each other. You don't need a forum to decide that for you. If you've only figured that out now, time to find a more realistic mantra. People can choose to say what they want to say and believe it, you don't have to. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 You see this is what does my head in. The same usual cr*p trotted out. " Do the hard work. And then when that's done, start working some more at becoming a better person " What if you are a good person anyway ? The same old advice for every thread on here is this and of course " join the gym " What a joke ! Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 if you are a good person, then you should make better choices when it comes to partners, otherwise the rest of the world won't try to comfort you into telling you that there are better partners out there. oh, and do go to that gym, btw ;-) ! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 It is all just platitudes and empty words. At 50 I know as a FACT I will never find someone else now. It is too late. I am too old now. So I suck it up and live or rather exist one day at a time now. Ok, if you are 30 you have a chance at 50, no chance. None. So it really grates me with the " you will find someone better cr*p " Link to post Share on other sites
mtnbiker3000 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Well, as I've posted, for me the gym is really not that important. Rather a mental workout where I am trying to identify and break patterns that lead to the same or similar results in my RS's. Therefore, I KNOW that I will be better off the harder I 'workout' and my future RS(s) will be better. There is no doubt in my mind. None! It's also about one's mindset. If one just gives up and say's "Ok, He/She was the best I can get. Now they're gone. Guess I am destined to schyte from here on out" Well guess what? That pretty much ensures you will be just that. There are no guarantees. That is life. Make the best of what ya got! I think the message is "Stay Positive" Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 take some bloody responsibility here, be humble and accept you are not perfect. Neither are those around you. And you don't deserve any special treatment either, only because you're hurting badly, for you made those choices. Bad things happen to good people. So? Accept it, learn from it, grow and move on. Pity party over! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 Really when you look back at all the threads is " I am heartbroken " Answer to the problems " join the gym " That pretty much is the advice on LS. That is all you will ever get and of course " work on yourself " blah blah blah blah. Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 It is all just platitudes and empty words. At 50 I know as a FACT I will never find someone else now. It is too late. I am too old now. So I suck it up and live or rather exist one day at a time now. Ok, if you are 30 you have a chance at 50, no chance. None. So it really grates me with the " you will find someone better cr*p " so you keep making crappy choices until the age of 50 and then complain? naaaah, me thinks you are a teenager at best ! you'll learn, don't worry, that's only the beginning ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 so you keep making crappy choices until the age of 50 and then complain? naaaah, me thinks you are a teenager at best ! you'll learn, don't worry, that's only the beginning ! I have made some mistakes but this site is mainly people at 18 saying " my life is over, my girl at school kissed another boy behind the bicicle shed, boo hoo " not old bastards. I think LS needs a seperate forum for 50 and over as it is a whole new challenge then , and an impossible one. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Really when you look back at all the threads is " I am heartbroken " Answer to the problems " join the gym " That pretty much is the advice on LS. That is all you will ever get and of course " work on yourself " blah blah blah blah. Quit whining. You're 50 and if you take to heart some of the things people say on here as gospel, then you need to start creating your own mantras and accepting your own realities. By now you should have a better understanding of how life works and that it takes much more than a gym to create your path. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zammo25 Posted July 8, 2013 Author Share Posted July 8, 2013 Quit whining. You're 50 and if you take to heart some of the things people say on here as gospel, then you need to start creating your own mantras and accepting your own realities. By now you should have a better understanding of how life works and that it takes much more than a gym to create your path. Too late now. At 50 there is no chance now. Link to post Share on other sites
mtnbiker3000 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 I have made some mistakes but this site is mainly people at 18 saying " my life is over, my girl at school kissed another boy behind the bicicle shed, boo hoo " not old bastards. I think LS needs a seperate forum for 50 and over as it is a whole new challenge then , and an impossible one. Well, then I guess you should just head to the local suicide booth and put yourself out of misery... And, there are plenty of us in our 30's, 40's and beyond on LS. I, myself, am 41 and hope I never take on an attitude like your's... Good luck anyway, Negative Nancy 1 Link to post Share on other sites
candie13 Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 Finally, a constructive sentence from your mouth, oh my God, it took you 20 posts !!! So instead of starting flaming threads that help no one, why not start a great topic, which is linked to whatever your issue is - starting all over when you're 50, or dealing with pain or whatever else it is that's bothering you. You are making a good point, I believe. Link to post Share on other sites
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