Nancy B Posted July 8, 2013 Share Posted July 8, 2013 I have three girly mates. Let's call them A, B, C. I met them abroad a few years ago and soon we part ways. For me, this is not a sad goodbye. They do nothing but bitch about each other and use each other. I find myself very anxious these days. they are not good friends. My LDR fiance visited recently and we've been spending a lot of time together. I bumped into B last week who says that C has been complaining that I didn't set up a night on the town so A, B, C could meet my fiance. Yet in messages to me, C never made such comments. I don't know if B made such comments but I'm let know they are discussing it. Truth is, my fiance has no interest to meet them. He's busy here on this visit and we have a lot of plans together. I tried to meet A,B and C yday and they say 'Not tonight, maybe tomorrow.' My fiances visit must end soon and I need to plan a schedule tightly. Even though I dont care for these friends, I feel like I should make a final effort. At the same time I feel like they're manipulating me. I feel very anxious over this. Am I in the wrong? What should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 no, you will make other friends, these do not sound that nice, you do not even like them very much, bitchy and users, you said, okay Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted July 9, 2013 Share Posted July 9, 2013 From what you describe I wouldn't call them friends. You probably won't see them again so I wouldn't stress over it. Tell them sorry it didn't work out this time, maybe next time. And leave it at that. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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