Possible Premature Ejaculation. what's up with this?

[butterflygrl]

i have a question ... i have noticed over the past few months that when me and my h are intimate he goes too quick.. he says that it is because i turn him on and he can't wait .. i never get to get my groove on before he does.. maybe its because he don't know how to control it.. i have talked with him about it and told him how i feel and he keeps telling me the same thing he thinks about it too much... please give me some advice to make him last longer!!

[bluechocolate]

If this is a recent thing (you mentioned it happening in the past few months) then it could be premature ejaculation. In which case he should talk to a medical professional.

 

.. maybe its because he don't know how to control it..

 

If it is medical then control has nothing to do with it.

 

Unless by too quick you mean the way you two make love has changed. Has it? If that is the case then you two need to go about things differently. Hold off on penetration & have more foreplay until you start to get your groove on. And he should be pulling out or slowing down when he feels he's close. There is also a spot, in the middle, just under the balls, that if pressed firmly can help to delay ejaculation.

 

But again, if this is a recent phenomena & nothing else has changed I would urge him to speak to a medical professional.

[UCFKevin]

AIn't no thing such as premature ejaculation to me.

 

If I ejacultate, it's RIGHT on time! YEEHAW!

[butterflygrl]

hey all thanks for the replys .. i didn't post this as possible preejaculation a moderator must have done it .. it isn't even about that ... we got our groove on last night and we changed position and it lasted a whole lot longer and i was able to finish!!! i don't think it is a medical problem at all!! maybe he thinks about it too much and can't control it!!!

[Sugar_Cube]

Sounds like maybe you found the answer to the problem. Maybe it was just a certain position you all were trying that made him feel extra sensitive and go quicker. Possibly to he hasn't learned a control technique as well. Maybe he should slow down a little when he feels he is about to go. Its all in the mind, he should learn to relay that slowing down message from the mental part to the pyhiscal aspect of it and maybe it will help.