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Ladies, have you ever dated an attractive guy after he grabbed your *****

Mrlonelyone

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Southern Cal Dude Established Member

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Here is a question, how many guys here would get an ego boost if a woman came up and squeezed his arm in admiration of how huge it is?

 

 

 

 

I can honestly say that after a few too many drinks [when I was single] I have seen a guy with huge muscles and just for fun asked if I could touch.

I have always asked, but I am sure women do it without asking.

 

When a guy slaps my ass, I just see it as degrading if I am not in a relationship with him... Like really? You couldn't just come up and talk to me?

 

 

I'd find it offensive. I was at Applebee's with my mom once and the waitress purposely touched my hand after I gave my order. My mom thought it was cute. Guess who didn't get tipped?

miss_jaclynrae Established Member

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I'd find it offensive. I was at Applebee's with my mom once and the waitress purposely touched my hand after I gave my order. My mom thought it was cute. Guess who didn't get tipped?

 

You did't tip a woman for touching your hand?

Seems a little overboard to me...

thefooloftheyear Established Member

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Here is a question, how many guys here would get an ego boost if a woman came up and squeezed his arm in admiration of how huge it is?

 

 

 

 

I can honestly say that after a few too many drinks [when I was single] I have seen a guy with huge muscles and just for fun asked if I could touch.

I have always asked, but I am sure women do it without asking.

 

When a guy slaps my ass, I just see it as degrading if I am not in a relationship with him... Like really? You couldn't just come up and talk to me?

 

Sorry...I dont consider it an ego boost..I dont work out to impress women so it doesnt have that effect..maybe it would for another guy but I dont get it...

 

understand what I am saying here....I dont need therapy because someone grabbed my bicep.:laugh: And I know I am not the only guy thats had his ass pinched. We are supposed to just laugh it off while women can call securty and have you arrested over it..

 

Just a few weeks ago, a woman that I barely know.(she is a customer of mine, Ive only seen her three times in my life).stops in ..I politely ask her how she is doing. She says she is a bit off... "-maybe its because I havent been fcked in two years"..Those were her exact words and this is coming from a professional woman in her late 40's..Can you imagine if I or any other guy said something that sugggestive to a strange woman?

 

TFY

Southern Cal Dude Established Member

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You did't tip a woman for touching your hand?

Seems a little overboard to me...

 

 

She was completely inappropriate. I'm not talking about accidentally grazing it. I'm talking about borderline holding it. Maybe she thought my mom was really my older girlfriend. She was still out of line.

Eggplant Established Member

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We are supposed to just laugh it off while women can call securty and have you arrested over it..

 

You can have her arrested.

Southern Cal Dude Established Member

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You can have her arrested.

 

 

No cop is going to arrest her.

miss_jaclynrae Established Member

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Sorry...I dont consider it an ego boost..I dont work out to impress women so it doesnt have that effect..maybe it would for another guy but I dont get it...

 

understand what I am saying here....I dont need therapy because someone grabbed my bicep.:laugh: And I know I am not the only guy thats had his ass pinched. We are supposed to just laugh it off while women can call securty and have you arrested over it..

 

Just a few weeks ago, a woman that I barely know.(she is a customer of mine, Ive only seen her three times in my life).stops in ..I politely ask her how she is doing. She says she is a bit off... "-maybe its because I havent been fcked in two years"..Those were her exact words and this is coming from a professional woman in her late 40's..Can you imagine if I or any other guy said something that sugggestive to a strange woman?

 

TFY

 

 

I'll leave it at this, there is a time and a place for everything.

I have never called security or had a guy arrested over grabbing my ass. A quick WTF are you doing and if you catch me on a bad night a single slap is the most i'll do.

 

It also depends on the context. If a drunk guy did it and someone he was with automatically expressed how sorry he was and explain that the guy was trashed, I would probably laugh it off.

 

An outright, walk by, slap my ass when I am not looking and giving me a look as if you could eat me, KNOWING you slapped my ass to get my attention? No thanks, that will just make me mad.

 

 

 

I am in no way saying women can inappropriately touch men, I am just saying that there are a TON of factors that come into play as to what my reaction would be, also the type of touching that is happening.

Eggplant Established Member

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No cop is going to arrest her.
That's stupid. If I were a cop, I'd arrest. It's against the law, and he probably had witnesses. :mad:

 

Another deterrent is to shame the culprits. Make a scene. Those women won't like being publically exposed for overreaching boundaries.

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Mrlonelyone Established Member

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That's stupid. If I were a cop, I'd arrest. It's against the law, and he probably had witnesses. :mad:

 

Another deterrent is to shame the culprits. Make a scene. Those women won't like being publically exposed for overreaching boundaries.

 

 

 

 

When a man makes a scene they at least get mace' ed.

D-Lish Established Member

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Like everything else- there are degrees ranging from "inappropriate" to illegal.

 

A woman wouldn't be prosecuted for squeezing a guys bicep in a bar- but it could lose her her job if she did it at worked and the guy lodged a complaint.

thefooloftheyear Established Member

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Like everything else- there are degrees ranging from "inappropriate" to illegal.

 

A woman wouldn't be prosecuted for squeezing a guys bicep in a bar- but it could lose her her job if she did it at worked and the guy lodged a complaint.

 

 

If a guy lodged a complaint hed get laughed at and called a fag...

 

And call the cops and have her arrested:laugh:...Can you imagine how much fun the boys back at the station would have with that one..:laugh::laugh:

 

TFY

Eggplant Established Member

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If a guy lodged a complaint hed get laughed at and called a fag...

 

And call the cops and have her arrested:laugh:...Can you imagine how much fun the boys back at the station would have with that one..:laugh::laugh:

 

TFY

 

That's a stupid double standard. I'm against double standards, but if she's going to use it to attack you, use the same double standard to attack back. What kind of woman grabs strange guys?

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Eggplant Established Member

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When a man makes a scene they at least get mace' ed.

 

Even if he is just yelling and pointing?

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I wouldn't be so sure that a company would laugh of a woman sexually harassing a male coworker in these days. I think they'd take a complaint very seriously.

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D-Lish Established Member

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If a guy lodged a complaint hed get laughed at and called a fag...

 

And call the cops and have her arrested:laugh:...Can you imagine how much fun the boys back at the station would have with that one..:laugh::laugh:

 

TFY

 

Well, granted, in all my years in the workforce- I've only ever witnessed men being the aggressors, never once the other way around.

ThaWholigan Established Member

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That's a stupid double standard. I'm against double standards, but if she's going to use it to attack you, use the same double standard to attack back. What kind of woman grabs strange guys?

You'd be surprised :laugh:. I'm a guy and actually have had my ass grabbed by a woman I didn't know. More than once :laugh:.

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Southern Cal Dude Established Member

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You'd be surprised :laugh:. I'm a guy and actually have had my ass grabbed by a woman I didn't know. More than once :laugh:.

 

 

Yep. Same here. I don't know if women are that naive or just turn a blind eye to it.

Eggplant Established Member

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You missed my point. When I asked "what kind of woman" I wasn't expressing surprise but rather indicating that women who do such a thing fit under a certain category. I was advocating using a double standard to combat a double standard. Which is probably not the mature thing to do.

thefooloftheyear Established Member

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I wouldn't be so sure that a company would laugh of a woman sexually harassing a male coworker in these days. I think they'd take a complaint very seriously.

 

Youre right, they probably would..

 

But iinstead of sympathy/empathy that a woman might receive they(men) would likely be ridiculed and called names.

 

Look...I am not some bitter, never got laid, women hater like you see posting on this site:rolleyes:...I love all of y'all..:love:...But I have never even thought of touching a woman I dont know in any way on ANY part of her body..Unlike some of the "grey area' responses that some of the women who have posted on this thread..

 

Its a double standard..period..Just admit it and thats that.Guys dont complain, because if they did theyd be a bunch of pansies...yet, if you so much as look at a woman with a suggestive stare they lawyer up on you..

 

TFY

thefooloftheyear Established Member

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Well, granted, in all my years in the workforce- I've only ever witnessed men being the aggressors, never once the other way around.

 

You'll never hear about it because guys dont complain about it...Its more common than you think it is..

 

TFY

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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If any guy I wasn't already dating grabbed ANY of my *****, it would by definition be in an "unwanted way." I'd be enraged and horrified and probably unleash some of my ninja moves on him. Attractive? I wouldn't even notice.

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samsungxoxo Established Member

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Ladies, have you ever dated an attractive guy after he grabbed your *****?

 

 

******** means any part of your body. I don't mean in an unwanted way. I mean a hot guy you kinda want to touch.

I don't even go to clubs so therefore, there is no chance that I'll stumble upon him.

 

However, if that was the case may he be prepare to face harassment charges.

samsungxoxo Established Member

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Grabbing a person's butt is considered battery and sexual harassment. Therefore, before you retaliate with violence, you can call the police.
That's what I'll do. Report him immediately. I wouldn't care how good looking he is. The only man that grabbed me there and I gave him permission was my then bf. If he did now, I would report him too since we're not in a relationship anymore.
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Sure he could after all guys are stronger BUT if he did he would also be crawling on all fours wailing like a baby after my heel kicked him in the nuts.

If I wanted to pawed I'll let you know clear and simple otherwise stay the heck away from me and my parts

samsungxoxo Established Member

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Sure he could after all guys are stronger BUT if he did he would also be crawling on all fours wailing like a baby after my heel kicked him in the nuts.
Wow you're slightly meaner than most of us but can't really feel sorry for him, he would deserve it.:laugh:

Hopefully he'll quickly learn his lesson and never do it again, unless he wants to become a crying child for one day. Still, I wouldn't do that. I heard it's too painful for most men (though, I've never in my life seen a man getting hit/kicked there but only saw a brief youtube video about it, that guy sure seem in terrible pain). I think my only exception would be in total self-defense.

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