Betterthanthis13 Posted August 9, 2013 Share Posted August 9, 2013 I'm good.no worries. Ok so you have it together mentally then, good- I can't tell from a computer screen Some people are good like that, they can keep it together in times of stress, right? I'd be freaking out, a complete basket case if I just saw what you saw. Sorry for projecting! Moving right along.... What is your next move? What are you going to do? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 10, 2013 Author Share Posted August 10, 2013 So - you've been trailing her for a loooong time now - which guy did you see her with? Which puzzle pieces have you put together? it was a different guy alltogether. One I had su spected early on but dismissed. Only one recorded contact with him. Very sneaky. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 10, 2013 Share Posted August 10, 2013 So - she must have other methods of communicating... Link to post Share on other sites
Realist3 Posted August 10, 2013 Share Posted August 10, 2013 So - she must have other methods of communicating... Geeee.. ya think? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted August 10, 2013 Share Posted August 10, 2013 What do you plan to do with your new info? Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted August 10, 2013 Share Posted August 10, 2013 I do not understand why you did not just bust her immediately when you caught both of them together. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 11, 2013 Author Share Posted August 11, 2013 Sunny..just like she said I don't know what to do. Brian.. I really don't know, kinda in shock. I think I was convinced she was doing nothing. Iam going to play dumb and try and get more. Everything I have is here. If it had been who I was thinking I would have went on in maybe. Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted August 11, 2013 Share Posted August 11, 2013 Sunny..just like she said I don't know what to do. Brian.. I really don't know, kinda in shock. I think I was convinced she was doing nothing. Iam going to play dumb and try and get more. Everything I have is here. If it had been who I was thinking I would have went on in maybe. I don't know what you saw but my gut says that gathering more evidence is wise. You don't need to convince her that she's cheating but you do need to convince yourself so that you could feel confidently justified about divorce. If she was just sitting there with him, you can expect it all to be explained away with some story about "supporting her friend by accompanying him on weekly visits to his mother's grave" or some other such lie. The GPS has worked for you. I think a PI is in order. Link to post Share on other sites
turnera Posted August 12, 2013 Share Posted August 12, 2013 You have enough to leave her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 12, 2013 Author Share Posted August 12, 2013 You know the wierdest thing I have found in all this is the music videos she has been watching on you tube like "Sail" by AWOLNATION. I just don't get it. That just totally blows my mind. It s like she is two different poeple.there wer more even wierder. One was this big tall rapper I can't remembe his name right off but it was totally out of character. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 13, 2013 Author Share Posted August 13, 2013 Also in her browser history.....sl--load. Com free porn videos / upload. Does that mean what I think it does? Link to post Share on other sites
karnak Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Unlike what some posters in this Forum think, when a woman suddenly, out of the blue, appears to acquire a new taste for porn (with the husband being clueless about it) is because they want to acquire new "ideas" and "concepts" to try with her lover. Ask any guy who's experienced in dating married women and they'll tell you that most cheating wives are prone to try with their lovers stuff they refuse to do with their husbands. Sick, but true. As for the new music tastes, it's quite a normal thing. They want to acquire a sort of "common cultural ground" with their lovers, so that they can share more in common, apart from their bodies. It's what most regular couples do while dating really, in order to try to better understand each other. Link to post Share on other sites
TobyBoy Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 You need a keylogger dude!!! Best one I know is Relytec. It's free for a week. Very stealthy. Look it up! Erase your browser history after. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 13, 2013 Author Share Posted August 13, 2013 It is my understanding that a upload is when you post something from your device to another. So a video or something was sent to that website from her phone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 13, 2013 Author Share Posted August 13, 2013 You need a keylogger dude!!! Best one I know is Relytec. It's free for a week. Very stealthy. Look it up! Erase your browser history after. Will it work on a cell phone? Link to post Share on other sites
TobyBoy Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Sorry. No, it's for a PC. What kind of phone? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 13, 2013 Author Share Posted August 13, 2013 Sorry. No, it's for a PC. What kind of phone? Samsung galaxy 3 Link to post Share on other sites
karnak Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 It is my understanding that a upload is when you post something from your device to another. So a video or something was sent to that website from her phone. Most porn video sites have a serch engine, allowing to search videos by their upload date. Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenPrincess Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 It is my understanding that a upload is when you post something from your device to another. So a video or something was sent to that website from her phone. No the opposite. An upload would be transferring a file UP to the site (like from a phone or computer file) What you describe would be a DOWNload...transferring a file DOWN from the site to save locally on a phone or computer. I don't really understand what you found. She's visited a poem site, correct? But what exactly did you find regarding uploads?? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 13, 2013 Author Share Posted August 13, 2013 No the opposite. An upload would be transferring a file UP to the site (like from a phone or computer file) What you describe would be a DOWNload...transferring a file DOWN from the site to save locally on a phone or computer. I don't really understand what you found. She's visited a poem site, correct? But what exactly did you find regarding uploads?? not poem, its porn.the history said upload. Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Check for all new porn on that site for the date she uploaded. See if you recognize her or her wedding rings. If you do download the evidence. Link to post Share on other sites
karnak Posted August 13, 2013 Share Posted August 13, 2013 Check for all new porn on that site for the date she uploaded. See if you recognize her or her wedding rings. If you do download the evidence. Let's pray the situation doesn't reach such extremes. Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenPrincess Posted August 14, 2013 Share Posted August 14, 2013 not poem, its porn.the history said upload. Lol guess my autocorrect decided to keep things G-rated. Pretty sure you wouldn't be as concerned if she was trolling for poems. Good luck in your search...I hope you don't find any upload history Link to post Share on other sites
Owl Posted August 14, 2013 Share Posted August 14, 2013 So, I am asking again...what is your PLAN now that you have this new information? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bobwhite007 Posted August 14, 2013 Author Share Posted August 14, 2013 So, I am asking again...what is your PLAN now that you have this new information? Honestly, I have no idea what to do.its some crazy s*^t been going on and I just can't make myself believe some of it. I know since my suspicions have been raised some of the stuff I've found should really be no big deal under normal circumstances. I don't know what they were doing in the car or how they communicate Link to post Share on other sites
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