Are very bitter people, who despise the opposite gender, actually better off alone?

[KungFuJoe]

We have no kids.

 

Hmm...thought you had kids.

 

No matter...think about your wife? Is your attitude fair for her?

 

You know, whether you believe it or not, your views on women will eventually (if not already) overlap to include her as well.

[Pompeii]

Hmm...thought you had kids.

 

No matter...think about your wife? Is your attitude fair for her?

 

You know, whether you believe it or not, your views on women will eventually (if not already) overlap to include her as well.

 

"Every woman's a whore except your mother and your sister."

[Woggle]

Hmm...thought you had kids.

 

No matter...think about your wife? Is your attitude fair for her?

 

You know, whether you believe it or not, your views on women will eventually (if not already) overlap to include her as well.

 

I don't think all women are bad though. I say that men are just as bad but I understand their motivations more because I am one. I know what makes bitter men tick because I have been there while women are a mystery to me.

[KungFuJoe]

I don't think all women are bad though. I say that men are just as bad but I understand their motivations more because I am one. I know what makes bitter men tick because I have been there while women are a mystery to me.

 

It's fine to be wary and cautious but just be careful that your thoughts don't become an umbrella that covers ALL women.

 

I've known some downright NASTY women...and I've known some absolutely amazing women (I'm married to one). People come in all different types...but it's not a woman or man thing.

[Woggle]

It's fine to be wary and cautious but just be careful that your thoughts don't become an umbrella that covers ALL women.

 

I've known some downright NASTY women...and I've known some absolutely amazing women (I'm married to one). People come in all different types...but it's not a woman or man thing.

 

I don't think very highly of humanity in general. If there is a god then whoever it may be must look at humanity and wonder what kind of garbage they created.

[Pompeii]

I don't think very highly of humanity in general. If there is a god then whoever it may be must look at humanity and wonder what kind of garbage they created.

 

Living in Seaside Heights, I have no doubt you see garbage people everywhere. Haha.

[Woggle]

Living in Seaside Heights, I have no doubt you see garbage people everywhere. Haha.

 

I like it here.

[Pyro]

I like it here.

 

Try living elsewhere for a while. I guarantee that your life would be better.

 

I am not taking a dig at Jersey but you have been in that area your whole life and you are IMO bi-polar and have some pretty crappy friends when it comes to relationships. When they say a change of scenery would do you good they are referring to you Woggle especially.

[sweetkiwi]

I don't think very highly of humanity in general. If there is a god then whoever it may be must look at humanity and wonder what kind of garbage they created.

This is so sad..... I don't see this. I see the pain and the evil...I know better than most, but if perspective is what you make of it why not see the good and let your heart/soul/being be overtaken by positive versus negative....:D:bunny:

[Woggle]

Try living elsewhere for a while. I guarantee that your life would be better.

 

I am not taking a dig at Jersey but you have been in that area your whole life and you are IMO bi-polar and have some pretty crappy friends when it comes to relationships. When they say a change of scenery would do you good they are referring to you Woggle especially.

 

I haven't lived here my entire life. I lived in NYC until 2002 and most of my friends are from my NY days. MY NJ friends are mostly pretty good and in good relationships. If another hurricane hits this year we are out but we very much want to stay.

[SJC2008]

My uncle could be considered bitter. He married the same type of woman (controlling, unaffectionate) four times. Who should he blame? His unaffectionate controlling mother? Himself? Does it matter? He's definately got women issues. I don't jave the anger and rage he has toward women because thank god I know what my problems are and am making a conscious effort to stay away from controlling women.

 

Anyway, most people here know I don't take sides and I tell it like it is whether the "wrong" party is a man or a woman. My main thing is that people suck. My best friend would sleep with a married woman and he hangs out with guys that would screw your girl in the next room when you're not paying attention. I think most men cheat and I'm not a woman so I won't speculate to their percentage but I guarentee it's higher than reported because women are big time face savers. I don't blame them for it completely though as society "paints" them as the more empathetic, compassionate sex.

 

I know there are good people out there but I'm not going to go through thus life pretending everything is honky dory. I'm not going to get into a relationship unless I meet someone who is self aware and makes a conscious effort to not let their issues impede them. Hell bring your issues to the table, I will and we can both work around them. I'm not looking for perfection, rather the exact opposite. Someone who admits they're not perfect and doesn't have to br right even when all evidence to the contray says otherwise. Where are these people?

 

As I've gotten older I've realized that most people aren't in healthy R's and I don't know why they put up with the crap they do? Dyfunction breeds dysfunction and I want ZERO part of it. It's Leave it to Beaver or bust for me baby!

[Eve]

I can't see how a very bitter person could add to a healthy relationship, so yes, they are better off alone.

 

Take care,

Eve x

[ltjg45]

I don't think very highly of humanity in general. If there is a god then whoever it may be must look at humanity and wonder what kind of garbage they created.

 

I sometimes came to that conclusion as well. If I were to give my trust to someone else, I'm already prepared if he/she proves otherwise.

 

Now-a-days, I just take it as they come.

[amaysngrace]

Most definitely bitter people should be alone. At least until they resolve themselves into figuring out that you can't change the past. Then they can rejoin society but not until then.