kareena Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 So it has been just under a week now,still nothing. I'm starting to get really angry he should at least fuc*ing call WTH is up with that?! If he loved or even remotely cared about me for a day in his life he should at least have the decency to call,there's plenty of unfinished business between us. He should at least call so he'd come and collect his sh*t that's laying around my house,he still has a copy of my house keys,and he still owes me a sh*t load of money so at least have the decency to call and sort this sh*t out you fuc*ing c*nt!! I don't even want his sorry as* anymore,I'm so angry right now I wish I could bestow physical pain upon him! And hell no I'm not calling,believe it or not I still have some pride left. I'm giving him until tomorrow,if he doesn't call by then I don't know what I'll do but it aint guna be pretty. Link to post Share on other sites
LilGirlandOW Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 He should at least call so he'd come and collect his sh*t that's laying around my house,he still has a copy of my house keys,and he still owes me a sh*t load of money so at least have the decency to call and sort this sh*t out you fuc*ing c*nt!! Oh no girl I wonder if he's running scared to pay up... that freaking sucks!! You could always send an invoice to BS, lol. Link to post Share on other sites
LilGirlandOW Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 from the "Betrayed Other Woman Collection Company" lol. Goodluck honey ~ 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author kareena Posted July 12, 2013 Author Share Posted July 12, 2013 lol that's funny! I don't even want it back it's just a matter of principal I feel like if anything he should at least call regarding these issues (secretly hoping he'd call and say he loves me) I know,I suck! Link to post Share on other sites
LilGirlandOW Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 No you dont suck babe! I go through the highs and lows too, and I'm constantly hoping my MM will "rescue" me through my lows with a sweet message, that he loves and misses me. Its normal, your a good person, you cant help that you love him, we should be able to love who we want and not feel self-shame for it. I too realize NC is probably what I need, but my "boyfriend" is what I want, cause when its good its amazing Link to post Share on other sites
zevahc Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 lol that's funny! I don't even want it back it's just a matter of principal I feel like if anything he should at least call regarding these issues (secretly hoping he'd call and say he loves me) I know,I suck! I'm sure many, if not all of us have felt like this...i know right now what's killing me more than anything is not even a week ago I was told "ILU", and now nothing...she went cold turkey on me...no dday or anything...she just decided it's time to work on her M. I respect it..but it doesn't mean it doesn't hurt. I'm trying my best to say it's not personal and probably she still really does have feelings...but if this is how she copes...then so be it...in the past 10 days the only thing i've heard has been negative...so...what the heck can you do...but live on...one day at a time kareena.....one day at a time... Link to post Share on other sites
Mycatsnuggles Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 Stay angry as long as possible. For me the anger is so much easier to deal with then the hurt. Unfortunately they do usually contact again. Some point don't the road. With the story of "how I couldn't contact because XXXX" fill in the blank of what ever story will win you back. Stay mad!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 12, 2013 Share Posted July 12, 2013 So it has been just under a week now,still nothing. I'm starting to get really angry he should at least fuc*ing call WTH is up with that?! If he loved or even remotely cared about me for a day in his life he should at least have the decency to call,there's plenty of unfinished business between us. He should at least call so he'd come and collect his sh*t that's laying around my house,he still has a copy of my house keys,and he still owes me a sh*t load of money so at least have the decency to call and sort this sh*t out you fuc*ing c*nt!! I don't even want his sorry as* anymore,I'm so angry right now I wish I could bestow physical pain upon him! And hell no I'm not calling,believe it or not I still have some pride left. I'm giving him until tomorrow,if he doesn't call by then I don't know what I'll do but it aint guna be pretty. Change your locks. Hmm, you say you're not gonna call but it won't be pretty if you don't hear from him.. Don't do anything. Silence says so much more and you'll get the satisfaction of being in control. DO NOT do anything that you're going to regret. You're pissed, emotional and upset - NOT a good combo to go ape shi.t and do something that you cannot undo later. Best thing is to keep on venting, write it out here and give yourself a day or two to calm down, think more rationally and then realize that he just isn't worth it. Make your own closure. No matter what he does or doesn't say will not be enough to give you peace. only you can do that for yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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