Author hippetyhop Posted July 13, 2013 Author Share Posted July 13, 2013 When we got back together, he said he needed 3-4 months to move out and file for divorce. Eventually he ran out of time and tried to blame me for not understanding the stress he was under with work and home. I called him on it and ended it. Then he sent me an email (hissy fit) that showed me a side of him I'd never seen. He said he couldn't serve two masters and needed time alone to think. It was the wakeup call I needed about how selfish he was, especially to his wife because she was in turmoil due to him telling her he wanted out and blaming herself. That led to said email being forwarded to her and she and I communicating. When she confronted him, one of his first moves was contacting me. When he tried to blame me and minimize the affair, I sent the "stern" email that held him accountable for all he had done and made it perfectly clear I saw him for the weak coward he is. His wife was included on all the emails. She had requested emails from the beginning, therefore she knew he was lying about whatever he was telling her about he and I. He sent me a text a week ago with grand proclamations. Completely ignored. Wow..total blame shifting. Nobody forced him to have "two masters" (I'm being sarcastic btw... that is one of the most selfish comments). He is upset that his grand little world was turned upside down. Good for you for ignoring the text It is unreal the steps one will go. Do you know if he is divorcing? I hope the wife finds peace as well. Link to post Share on other sites
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