fallenheart Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 Wake up. Women ARE shallow and they can deny it all they want but it's true. Short guys start getting a complex about it (for good reasons) from the time they're kids and it only gets worse as they get older. Good-looking successful guys will always be judged for ONE thing if they are 5 feet tall. That's tiny. Am I right OP? Your stature is the true cause of all your anguish? Link to post Share on other sites
Lani Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 Wake up. Women ARE shallow and they can deny it all they want but it's true. Short guys start getting a complex about it (for good reasons) from the time they're kids and it only gets worse as they get older. Good-looking successful guys will always be judged for ONE thing if they are 5 feet tall. That's tiny. Am I right OP? Your stature is the true cause of all your anguish? Are you a woman? Link to post Share on other sites
Truthsayer Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 I've been a long time reader and commenter on your threads, and it is all this self depricating woe-is-me whiney BS. You need to grow a pair of balls, man up, stop being a coward, and go out there and try to meet women. By threatening to kill yourself no woman will ever come for you. That attitude is not appealing to anyone! So instead of biotching and griping and blaming the world and being a little girly man about life, go out and try for once! This is horrible advise and is not helping. Your attitude reeks of part whining and part know it all. as i've said many times on here and elsewhere... I'm 300 lbs, albeit good looking, I am still overweight. Yet, I've managed to get girls that most guys would probably say ranged from 6s to 9s... my fiance being close to 8 or 9 by most standards, but by my standards is an 11. So as the 300 pound man with a beautiful fiance you don't know what others struggling are going through. At your weight and with a great fiance you are the exception not the rule. Just because something good worked out for you does not mean it will work out for everyone in the world. Link to post Share on other sites
Necris Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 I have tried to be happy being single, but nothing works. I have done alot of things and have lots of hobbies, but without someone special to share it with, it is meaningless. I have been told that to get a girl, you have to be happy and that being in a relationship wont make things better. Several posters have disproven that. I know what I want, ad Iwant to experience love and intimacy. The idea of being single for the rest of my life sounds worse than death. My parents are the only family I have. Once they die, I have no family whatsoever. Without a special someone in your life, life itself has no meaning TBH i never had a girlfriend in my life, women aren't ever interested in me in the slightest, I'm always rejected 100% of the time and the few rare dates I've been on I've only got to the first date and after that the women say they had a nice time and never return a call. But I've grown to feel content with my situation sure I'll never get a girlfriend and will stay single throughout the foreseeable future, but I'm not going to cry and obsess over it find something else to preoccupy your free time with if volunteering to help the needy isn't your cup of tea try other hobbies like writing a book, fixing cars, playing League of Legends (excellent game in my opinion fun to play, challenging, and after you start getting in to it you aren't worried about women anymore). Link to post Share on other sites
Knoxpwns Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 Well, since I'm not going to have a girlfriend or wife, I will have no family. Therefore the only thing I have is mastery. I need to be elite and I need to have a mass amount of monetary funds. If I do that, then my life's mission will be complete. If I end up broke, penniless, and if my business ventures go under, I will probably end up committing suicide. After all, I would have failed my mission and I would have no reason to live. I have two brothers, so they will have progeny and carry on the family name. If I could die knowing I improved the life of one other person on earth, then I could die knowing I made a difference. The mission is what you make it. History has shown us you don't really need kids and a wife to be remembered. Link to post Share on other sites
Knoxpwns Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 TBH i never had a girlfriend in my life, women aren't ever interested in me in the slightest, I'm always rejected 100% of the time and the few rare dates I've been on I've only got to the first date and after that the women say they had a nice time and never return a call. But I've grown to feel content with my situation sure I'll never get a girlfriend and will stay single throughout the foreseeable future, but I'm not going to cry and obsess over it find something else to preoccupy your free time with if volunteering to help the needy isn't your cup of tea try other hobbies like writing a book, fixing cars, playing League of Legends (excellent game in my opinion fun to play, challenging, and after you start getting in to it you aren't worried about women anymore). I just had to give you an internet high-five for your last bit. League of Legends is currently distracting me from a pretty painful breakup Link to post Share on other sites
Thegreatestthing Posted September 9, 2013 Share Posted September 9, 2013 I agree with the op,I have experienced a lot of things in life but nothing matched the pure happiness of loving someone and them loving you back ,it's like nothing else in this world. I am normally not that interested in relationships I have too many other interests, but now having experienced proper love it's hard to live without it. Its just all the support,love,affection,understanding,conversation,self esteem etc etc that you get from it,you get so so much from it,it's incredible,to live without it is difficult.but there is the option of friends but Its not really the same. Link to post Share on other sites
El Brujo Posted September 9, 2013 Share Posted September 9, 2013 Personally I don't worry too much about it. If ever I get tired of gettin' no love, I have my own little nuclear option under lock and key... and it would be bye-bye time for el Brujo. Link to post Share on other sites
Scales Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 You can always plow the land yourself and learn to make your own bread and learn to feed yourself. I.e. - Learn to love yourself. If you can't do that, you won't find anyone else. I guarantee you. Sorry but I have a problem with this drawn out stereotype. You can't possibly believe that the majority of people out there who are successful at dating and getting laid love themselves. From my experience, many of them are socially immature, insecure, aggressive, rude, and generally don't give a damn. I'm not talking about just college students either. This idea that somehow we all have to become an enlightened person first in order to have a relationship or that everyone in a relationship has learned to love themselves is absurd. There are plenty of people who think just like the OP and need someone else to be happy. They are miserable single and hate it. Its just that they have the tools and experience to meet new people and find someone quickly. OP has no experience and only falls further from the goal as dating becomes more and more competitive. Self improvement in outward image (body, hygiene, fashion) and Social skills (what to say, body language, reading signals) is what really needs to happen. Some people are born with it, and some people have to learn. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
emva07 Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 I'd say focus on the love from family in friends while you look for the love of a significant other. When I get lonely I try to surround myself with family and they distract from my sadness. People who love me NOW. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
emva07 Posted September 10, 2013 Share Posted September 10, 2013 You can't possibly believe that the majority of people out there who are successful at dating and getting laid love themselves. I HATE this too. So many of my friends feed me this BS, meanwhile they are in abusive relationships, relationships because they don't want to be alone, etc. THAT is not loving yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Sum12Luv Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 I HATE this too. So many of my friends feed me this BS, meanwhile they are in abusive relationships, relationships because they don't want to be alone, etc. THAT is not loving yourself. Count me in as another that is tired of hearing this diarrhea too. I have a ex guy friend that doesn't give 2 craps about who he screws, treated his ex gf's(my cousin) like crap,and cheats. Last thing I heard about him from my cousin, he moved in with his new gf 2 months after their breakup. I wonder how people like this can find love but it's so dang hard for other people. Link to post Share on other sites
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted September 15, 2013 Share Posted September 15, 2013 Sorry but I have a problem with this drawn out stereotype. You can't possibly believe that the majority of people out there who are successful at dating and getting laid love themselves. From my experience, many of them are socially immature, insecure, aggressive, rude, and generally don't give a damn. I'm not talking about just college students either. This idea that somehow we all have to become an enlightened person first in order to have a relationship or that everyone in a relationship has learned to love themselves is absurd. There are plenty of people who think just like the OP and need someone else to be happy. They are miserable single and hate it. Its just that they have the tools and experience to meet new people and find someone quickly. OP has no experience and only falls further from the goal as dating becomes more and more competitive. Self improvement in outward image (body, hygiene, fashion) and Social skills (what to say, body language, reading signals) is what really needs to happen. Some people are born with it, and some people have to learn. +1 That's similar to the "just be yourself" advice that gets thrown around a lot to guys that come on here and can't get laid. Clearly, being themselves is not working. Maybe they need better advice, dumb a**. Link to post Share on other sites
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