flopply hat Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 My daughter met her boyfriend in her first her at University. She is coming home soon after completing her 3rd of a 4 year course. Her boyfriend lives about 200 miles away but will be spending some time here. They have told me that after they have finished University they intend to stay there and live together, so this is a long term relationship they intend to continue. My dilemma is when they are both here do they share a bedroom or do I put them in separate rooms; they are both 21. I would have to vacate my room and use her room to do this. When my son of 17 had his 15 year old girlfriend to stay for a weekend there was no question in my mind that they have separate rooms but I'm faltering on this situation with my daughter. I do have old fashioned values but question whether I would just be a 'stick in the mood' if I separate them. Link to post Share on other sites
Eve Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 My daughter met her boyfriend in her first her at University. She is coming home soon after completing her 3rd of a 4 year course. Her boyfriend lives about 200 miles away but will be spending some time here. They have told me that after they have finished University they intend to stay there and live together, so this is a long term relationship they intend to continue. My dilemma is when they are both here do they share a bedroom or do I put them in separate rooms; they are both 21. I would have to vacate my room and use her room to do this. When my son of 17 had his 15 year old girlfriend to stay for a weekend there was no question in my mind that they have separate rooms but I'm faltering on this situation with my daughter. I do have old fashioned values but question whether I would just be a 'stick in the mood' if I separate them. It's up to you. Generally people seem to allow sons to have girlfriends sleep over and disallow daughters to do the same. That is what I have seen. We don't allow either sex to have partners sleep over because it is our home and we want the dynamic of them being our children to remain until they are married. We have enough space to accommodate partners in another room and they seem happy enough with this. Your call. Take care, Eve x Link to post Share on other sites
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