Zeitsev Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 (edited) I'm 21 and still a virgin in every sense of the word (saving everything for marriage). Don't know if that'll help but I thought I'd throw that out there. Anyways, ever since I was a little kid, I've been fascinated with larger women or "big beautiful women" as is the modern euphemism. As I grew older this disappeared and I adopted most of the "normal" views society has concerning bigger girls. And by that I mean I saw them as undesirable and not physically appealing. As I was entering puberty and raging with hormones this started to change. My taste in women started to revert back to the fascinations I had as a child. I specifically remember what I deem to be the official turning point; I was fantasizing about making love to a BBW one night and I became incredibly aroused. Afterwards I felt extremely ashamed and degraded. In the following months I began experimenting with masturbation for the first time and later visual stimulation. Initially I just looked at pictures of normal sized models but I soon started browsing for BBW models and that became the only type of porn I would look at. This went on for a bit but eventually I came to terms with my preference. And I even told a few close friends (who make fun of me for it, but in a "bro" sort of manner). As I matured I quit masturbating and looking at porn. And now 3 years later of complete sexual abstinence I still find that I'm very much attracted to bigger women. And by bigger women, I mean between what most people would call overweight and morbidly obese (for me how the weight is distributed is important...I should point that out). Those descriptions vary from person to person, so here are some pics to show my spectrum. I get that a lot of people will think I'm sick and have mental issues for being attracted to women like this. I don't really care about any of that. I could date BBWs and not be self conscious or embarrassed. I like girls with big breasts and a big behind. And larger women usually have that, in greater helpings. Plus bigger women are just softer and have more meat all over, and that's appealing to me too believe it or not. So why do I want to change my preferences? Health is really the only reason. I know it isn't good to carry a lot of extra weight around and I'd to have be with someone who I won't have to worry about in that regard. I'd like to be attracted to girls that are just average size. Is there is anything I can do to alter my preference? Any type of therapy someone can undergo? Can a person's tastes be changed and morphed? Or is it set in stone? Edited July 14, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed pictures of women because of anonymity reasons Link to post Share on other sites
eleanorrigby Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 Stick to what you like. I don't think you can change your preference for big girls anymore then gay people can turn themselves straight. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 Big girls need love too. They are all yours. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted July 14, 2013 Share Posted July 14, 2013 Go with it...The only advice I can give you is that be careful what you wish for... TFY 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zeitsev Posted July 15, 2013 Author Share Posted July 15, 2013 How so fooloftheyear? Link to post Share on other sites
TouchedSoul Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 Nothing wrong with curves my friend. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dichotomy Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 I am generally not sexually attracted to any woman under a size 10. Possibly because I worry I would break them like china dolls (at my height and build). Plus size models are considered to start around size 14 (by fashion magazines), which is considered average in the US and is a nice target for me... but again I can go up from there, and still not an issue for me to hug one off their feet. Men in various other cultures and races, also prefer "curvey gals" So why on earth would you let anyone put down your sexual preferences? More for you brother! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted July 16, 2013 Share Posted July 16, 2013 No need to change. You like what you like, and it's good that every person has someone who could be attracted to them. Go out there and find someone who is beautiful to YOU, and don't worry about what other people think. You can't live your life for them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LisaLee Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 You likey what you likey. I am not seeing an issue here unless you turn into one of those feeders. Link to post Share on other sites
Tinie Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 Everyone has different tastes. BBW are yours. They're people too, they also want to be loved. I'm attracted to the thin nerdy guys and totally turned off by very muscular guys (my best friend is the complete opposite). If we all liked the same type of person there wouldn't be enough of them to go around. Don't be ashamed for liking something that's outside of what society considers "the norm". Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 There was just a news item about a prostitution ring in Japan that was busted. The hookers had to weigh at least 330 lbs. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 I had no idea that enjoying someone who is fat is any different than liking someone who is skinny, tall, short, blond, black, brown eyes or any other kind of physical feature...had no clue one needed to be cured from having physical preferences. If people don't apologize for liking big boobs, tall men/women, etc. I don't see why one should act like liking someone plus-sized is a crime. You like what you like and so long as you don't date children or animals, you're a normal person and bigger women are normal people too who can be attractive, just like anyone else. Fat or bigger doesn't equal ugly just as thin doesn't equal pretty. Like who you feel attracted and turned on by and eff what other people think...they're not the ones who have to live with it. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Zeitsev Posted July 17, 2013 Author Share Posted July 17, 2013 You likey what you likey. I am not seeing an issue here unless you turn into one of those feeders. Oh I won't. I've never understood that whole scene. That's when it starts to become a fetish and not a preference in my eyes. Link to post Share on other sites
salparadise Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 Consider yourself lucky... craigslist is your nirvana. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TouchedByViolet Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 Fat women are high in supply and low in demand. Sounds easy for you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Seductive Posted July 17, 2013 Share Posted July 17, 2013 You like what you like. I've been suggested to give older men a chance, but I can't fathom any sexual attraction to older men(anyone 40 and up) . I've tried to go on dates with them, but the fact remains that I'm mainly attracted to people in my age range. If you're trying to stop liking bbw's, it's just going to make you frustrated. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Phantom888 Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 My woman has lots of curves... She is a bit BBW, but she has amazing distribution. Big chest/butt, and a smaller waist. Her 38DDD chest is amazing. I dated thin models before, and they are nothing compared to my woman. I am completely addicted to her curves. No shame in that at all. Just so glad that I found what I like. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CC12 Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 Any type of therapy someone can undergo? If you undergo any kind of therapy, I hope it would be geared toward helping you overcome the shame you feel being attracted to larger women, rather than trying to change what you find attractive. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 It's cool man, just embrace it! I like BBWs aswell, so it's not just you . I am quite comfortable with my attraction to larger women - the best thing you can do is try to do the same. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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