scatterd Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 I am so sorry for the situation you are in. It sounds like his mom was trying to insinuate that you had to know he was married. I don't think his mom sounds like she will help much. He took the chance of this happening and now he is playing the hiding game so his wifey does not know. His mom probably has not told his little secret to her either. Do you want your child around them and do you need help with existences? If yes I would get a paternity test and have him pay child support. I know you feel ashamed but you do need a support system. Talk to someone you trust like your parents or a good friend. You might be surprised by how they react. Big hugs Link to post Share on other sites
ComingInHot Posted July 18, 2013 Share Posted July 18, 2013 Hurtnomorerika, I'm a little chilled by the response of MM's mother. Best to lawyer up and now. The fact that she insinuated you "must have known", well my spidey sense is thinking if you told her the timeline of the A, she may be smart enough to know at some poor you Did know he was M & continued. In her eyes, it may be possible that she, in her blinded motherly fashion, is finding a way to demonize you, the OW. Mu birds is she has talked w/her son and together are figuring out THEIR best line of defense & recourse... I know of (only) 2 cases where the ow lost full custody of child because they didn't lawyer up expecting their rights as mother to just fall into place. I don't want that to happen to you so get your support team (both legal & emotional) in place NOW. What a crap stitch A's put lives in! I'm so sorry for all of you Except MM...* Link to post Share on other sites
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