Women, would you date a guy who had used escorts in the past?

[Imported]

If you think women have had sex with you simply because you bought her dinner or a drink.. that's a pretty messed up way of evaluating someones attraction to you.

 

Also a woman having sex of her own free will is not a 'slut'.

 

No, I actually don't think that. However, a lot of the times, getting from point A to point B requires I spend $$$.

 

 

I said "let her inner slut out", I didn't say she was a slut. There is a difference.......I am pretty sure.

[camillalev]

No, I actually don't think that. However, a lot of the times, getting from point A to point B requires I spend $$$.

 

 

I said "let her inner slut out", I didn't say she was a slut. There is a difference.......I am pretty sure.

 

 

A date and getting to know someone can cost money, that's true. But thats the nature of dating. Also, it can cost money on both sides, but this is not a discussion on going dutch. If you see dating simply in terms of money, sure, but thats just you and your point of view. Most people see dating as time to get to know and have fun getting to know someone. sometimes that ends in sex, but not because of the money spent.

 

Your argument has nothing to do with the sex industry. Specifically buying a human for a night, who otherwise has zero interest in you, getting to know you or you getting to know her, for the purposes of sex, is completely different.

[Sun Devil]

The problem is no matter what I do, I cant get a date. Women say that it is easy to get sex. It is for them, but not for me

[therhythm]

The problem is no matter what I do, I cant get a date. Women say that it is easy to get sex. It is for them, but not for me

 

Man, I wish you had already gone to the prostitute so we were done with this thread already

[ltjg45]

I strongly dispute the last notion. So so incorrect on so many levels.

 

I'd bet money on it.

 

I was about to say the same thing. I was hoping someone would call her out on that.

[Els]

Oh my lord, how did this thread even get resurrected!??!?!?!

See this

[nicolewest]

Depends on if you mean paid for sex or just went out with an escort. Escort does not equal prostitute.

 

Date? no

 

Marry? Perhaps. Would definitely have to get tested.

 

I actually had a similar issue. One of my ex bfs slept with a prostitute when we broke up then wanted to get back together with me.

[Geiss]

Whether we agree with prostitution or not aside... I can't believe so many of you guys are suggesting that OP doesn't disclose such information to his/her SO. If SO asks about OP's past, it is because he/she wants/needs to know. Why can't OP be honest, sincere, transparent?

 

I would not want to have a romantic relationship with a man that has used escorts/prostitutes in the past. I wouldn't want to have a romantic relationship with someone who used escorts ever. I have my own moral compass and if my relationship with OP, for instance, seriously progresses, it is because I believe that he hasn't used any escorts at any point of his life.

 

Depriving me of said information is very low as I am stripped away of my own choice of what I want in a partner. Let aside the talk about how good of a man he is now, how loving, sweet, attentionate etc he is with me... I still want to have the truth when I ask him about him using an escort/prostitute at any point. I want the partner that I deserve/desire, damn it! I should be aware of any past actions that would make me question my connection to my SO.

 

Preach honesty and deal with all past mistakes/ shortcomings in an open manner, not burrying them in a mountain of disappointment for the one you supposedly love.

 

So you at some point ask guys that you are seeing if they have slept with a prostitute? Does that mean he can ask how many sexual partners you have had? And you will be truthful? Because if you want the truth from him it's only fair you tell the truth as well. What if he slept with one prostitute once in his life to lose his virginity because he went way too long without having sex. And you on the other hand had sex with over 10 partners. So who looks down on who?

[Geiss]

How come the past is past rule doesn't apply to prostitution? It applies for sluts and whores but not prostitutes.

[sweetkiwi]

How come the past is past rule doesn't apply to prostitution? It applies for sluts and whores but not prostitutes.

 

*Sigh*

 

In your own life you make the rules as to what is acceptable or not. And, quite surprisingly, some people aren't concerned with things such as sexual past. For me personally I've been with at least one man who admitted to going to massage parlors when he couldn't get laid. Eventually I accepted it and would give him his own special massages as a way to say I accepted HIM and therefore his choices.

 

And now I am in love with a former escort.