Guest Posted October 25, 2004 Share Posted October 25, 2004 Is it wrong for being a little disappointed in not hearing your wife say 'i love you' as often as you like. It use to be a thing with us, that before leaving to work, or when saying goodbye on the phone etc. we use to say i love you. Now all I seem to get it a plain goodbye. It is no big deal I guess, I have just gotten use to hearing it all the time, and now it only comes every now and then ... Link to post Share on other sites
dizi Posted October 25, 2004 Share Posted October 25, 2004 It's not wrong to be disappointed that you don't hear,"I love you", as often as you'd like, but perhaps you could start saying it more to her...Let her know that it means a lot to hear her say it, and you love to let her know you love her too. And if you have a nickname for her, be sure to add that in there Hopefully that will start the ball rolling Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted October 25, 2004 Share Posted October 25, 2004 It might hurt when you don't hear it as much, but perhaps her hearing it all the time is not making it as such an impact like it has before. It becomes routine and the real meaning behind it has been lost. Has she been acting more distant than just the 'I love you' part? Try not to over analyze things. Insecurity is based on two things. One the imagination and two, acting on that imagination. Doing these two things will start making you behave in ways that are undesireable to her. You can also be the initiator of the 'I love yous' if you haven't been. Link to post Share on other sites
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