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fiance pocket dialed, wow, my feelings and ego are hurt!

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Or just take the stupid mold and throw it in the trash...Is it really worth all the bullshyt over?

 

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Heck, no, it isn't worth it. I'd much rather have the real thing :bunny:

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Not the issue...I dont think you, me or any other guy would have any issue with it..

 

Just dont make it a public joke among friends!! OUT OF LINE...

 

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But the public joke was made because of his unwillingness to continue the dialogue on how to correct the issue.

 

I have more empathy for her than him in this situation because I've had partners who were unwilling to talk about sex issues in the past. It sucks. Sex is a huge issue in so many relationships and being frustrated can create a permanent tear between them.

 

I just feel this entire thing could have been avoided if both (not just him) were more rational in their conversation after another failed attempt.

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I wanna know why the OP's fiance was so hell bent on making this mold when the real thing was readily available. It shouldnt even be this big of a deal, but she kept insisting on it which escalated to this situation. Its supposed to be fun. Is she that tight on money that she has to get more upset at wasting $45, rather than trying to help the guy keep the erection? OP did you hear her complain to her friend that she tried to help you out, or was it all about you failing to keep the erection? Does she not like giving you oral in general since its only once a month? Theres much more pressing issues with this relationship, you really shouldnt marry this women, just on the incompatibility of your personalities alone. Sounds it started more like a convenience relationship that a loving one.

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Have you thought about her?

 

I'm a guy too. I'd make sure my woman had a my cock to masturbate to if she wanted it even if that meant taking Viagra, Levitra, Cialis, etc.

 

The ability to look at both sides creates a greater awareness of the root cause. And the root of this issue is the OP shutting down when his gal brought up his erection issues.

 

And two minutes without stimulation is tough to pull off for some guys. I'd probably have to take the drug to keep it up that long in the molding shaft.

 

Actually it wasn't about my inability to keep it up, it was her unwillingness to try.. or attitude. "Pshhhuuhh" was said actually! I didn't shut down, I simply stated that I don't think its gonna work then!

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Actually it wasn't about my inability to keep it up, it was her unwillingness to try.. or attitude. "Pshhhuuhh" was said actually! I didn't shut down, I simply stated that I don't think its gonna work then!

 

AT that point I take 45 dollars out of my pocket hand it to her and throw the thing in the trash..Or better yet, throw it in the garbage and take her out to a nice dinner..

 

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I don't want to not do it, I kinda like the idea. This whole thing happened because of her telling her best friend about my inability to perform, after numerous discussions with her about it, she swears that she said " he thinks he can't keep it up that long" not what I heard but I'm over it. It doesn't matter, because either way, its crossing the line of confidentiality! I'm just not OK with it, best friend confidentiality seemed more important than her relationship. I hate to weigh things, but that's the value of it. Best friend or not, its a 23 year old girl that tells my fiance that her bf only lasts 2 min and has a tiny penis, she might as well tell the news in my book. I don't want my business, be it cock mold or even my license plate # being discussed by anyone!

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I wanna know why the OP's fiance was so hell bent on making this mold when the real thing was readily available. It shouldnt even be this big of a deal, but she kept insisting on it which escalated to this situation. Its supposed to be fun. Is she that tight on money that she has to get more upset at wasting $45, rather than trying to help the guy keep the erection? OP did you hear her complain to her friend that she tried to help you out, or was it all about you failing to keep the erection? Does she not like giving you oral in general since its only once a month? Theres much more pressing issues with this relationship, you really shouldnt marry this women, just on the incompatibility of your personalities alone. Sounds it started more like a convenience relationship that a loving one.

 

There was no mention of her trying to help, it was all her telling her that I was angry becausei felt like it would be difficult to do, in a degrading harsh kind if way. No mention if her refusing (which she says she didn't refuse) to be open to help out orally or whatever. Just lack of compassion towards me, vs keeping it real with her homie. I don't think she realizes that its not really making her look good either!

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AT that point I take 45 dollars out of my pocket hand it to her and throw the thing in the trash..Or better yet, throw it in the garbage and take her out to a nice dinner..

 

TFY

 

I don't understand this one bit.

 

 

The girl totally humiliates and disrespects him to her friend and she should be rewarded with a nice dinner?

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I don't think she realizes that its not really making her look good either!

 

based on what youve said in this thread of you guys being two ships passing in the night trying to please each other, among other things, I'd think she didnt care anymore at this point.

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I don't understand this one bit.

 

 

The girl totally humiliates and disrespects him to her friend and she should be rewarded with a nice dinner?

 

I think she should buy me dinner, give me a back rub and then blow me so I grudge fawk her face through the wall, but that's not gonna happen, cuz I'm so limp right now urs turning into a vagina! So maybe I'll take a viagra so I can Jack off in front of her and then toll over and go to sleep. I'm jokin of course, but she needs to fix it.

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You guys sound like an awesome couple.

 

/sarcasm

 

Yep, looks like it's already over from where I'm sitting! :(

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I don't understand this one bit.

 

 

The girl totally humiliates and disrespects him to her friend and she should be rewarded with a nice dinner?

 

My point is...If it immediately got thrown out, then maybe they would have gotten a laugh out of it, she would have forgot about it and never told her friend , he wouldnt have overheard it, and all is right with the world..

 

See it now...??

 

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My head hurts thinking how the hell you two got engaged to begin with, OP?

 

Seems like the only thing you two are good at with each other is hosting a premiere boxing fight so you can release all of your "love" to each other in glorious combat.

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My point is...If it immediately got thrown out, then maybe they would have gotten a laugh out of it, she would have forgot about it and never told her friend , he wouldnt have overheard it, and all is right with the world..

 

See it now...??

 

TFY

 

It kinda did, it happened like this

 

Reading instructions in bedroom laying in bed at 1130 pm on a work night for her an an of day for me discussing how to do it

We both seemed kinda unsure about how we could make it work. The instructions mention a penis pump, or having help from your partner... so I said yea I think it'll be difficult to do while mixing the crap together when the water is exactly 98 degrees and trying to focus on my cock staying hard without a blow job. She said pshaaaa, as though it was the bj that offended her (hearing later that it was her really thinking that it was nonsense that I couldn't stay up according to her) so anyways I kinda took it like well were both not into this right now and said its not gonna work then and we decided that it was better to snuggle and watch TV because it also takes a few hours to set before you can do the final mold and we were kinda lazy anyway. It ended up with us having a really good time and falling asleep after 2 hrs of TV and us laughing about random stuff.

 

So issue kind of minimized and no harm no foul in my mind.

 

So next day the viagra comment, kinda a joke on her part (according to her) for some reason it kinda got to me, because of the waste of 45$ comment I forgot to mention the night before. I had a headache and was kinda aggravated due to some other issue with my financial institution taking money

From me unexpectedly. So I may have taken out my frustration on her by simply going to the bedroom and taking a nap for 2hrs. If she was concerned enough about me being a jackass for not being in a great mood for numerous reasons she could have come initiated conversation with me and should have known I might have taken it a little personal when she said the viagra comment. Ok so she comes in kisses me as she leaves for work, I was kinda over it again, but wanted to mention it at a later more timely manor.

 

So then I get the pocket dial, I'm like wtf? That's when I went ballistic, because it was very insensitive and humiliating of her to mention anything about it and she took no responsibility for her part in kinda being under helpful and pinned it on me.

 

Her side is she was repeating the conversation her and I had to her bff because she didn't understand why I thought I couldn't stay hard. So if this is true I kinda get it, but again the jackass comment saying I can't stay hard for 2 min wtf I wasted 45$ ( not what she says she said, but what I heard) really enraged me because it felt like she thinks I'm inadequate, and portrayed me that way, like she was some perfect person and could do better

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The fight isn't over a cock mold, that's just the scapegoat in this, its more about respect and caring about your partners feelings. I really wasn't upset that bad about it. Just kinda disappointed that she wasn't into giving me a little pleasure to get her what she wanted from me. Sometimes we as men like our women to be a slut in the bedroom, and trust me she will, but it wasn't good timing for a cock mold with both our attitudes.

 

It is totally about respect and caring about your partners feelings and trusting each other not to exploit each others emotions, privacy and trust! Period! I really appreciate those who understand, and those who don't I wish good luck in their endeavours!

 

Two sides to every story, but I try to be fair, I'm tossed up about letting her read this but I think it might be good for her to hear and maybe chime in. Her attitude is exactly like the 23 yo Cali girls, stubborn and narcissistic!

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You know there's only one thing left to do now...

Get her to do a vagina mold and make fun of it.

 

Lmmfao! Yea, but women don't worship their vagina, maybe a tit mold.. that's probably closer to the same thing. But touche!!!!

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Lmmfao! Yea, but women don't worship their vagina, maybe a tit mold.. that's probably closer to the same thing. But touche!!!!

 

Well, some do. Some even take pictures of it (true story, I borrowed my friends digital camera, and there was a picture of it. I almost went blind. :eek:).

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Well, some do. Some even take pictures of it (true story, I borrowed my friends digital camera, and there was a picture of it. I almost went blind. :eek:).

 

Lol, she has a few of those pics, its a pretty nice vagina though. Apparently she worships my penis enough to want it immortalized so I don't feel all bad, its just a crappy thing to hear her telling her best friend about my cock not working, even though it probably would ifwe tried! Sex is always great, so whoever said I said it wasn't is wrong. I also was venting which is apparently OK in her mind so, I feel no guilt! If she reads this and gets mad, it may serve her right, but its not my intent, just trying to be fair here!

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Lmmfao!!! But its really like a cock massaging crack rock Satan filled black hole! But no its the best I've ever had as far as they go. Plus we do connect very deeply during intercourse, very sensual. I just kinda want to put it in her butt because I know she's let others do it. I'm not huge, but she says that's why I can't

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:lmao:

 

A Satan hole....

 

At times it's very heavenly, but then the fuggin thing attached to it begins to spawn Satan, followed by a bloody mess for several days. All I can say is that thing destroys Satan spawns and turns em into blood clots in our bathroom trash can that everyone in the house refuses to dispose of except me. Heh

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I trust that after 100 posts and many attacks that the thread starter has his answer, thread closed

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