mesmerized Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 The men who insist on natural are talking about B's and bigger. If a woman is truly flat chested, it is pretty much the equivalent of having a micro penis is for a man. I have friends who are very flat chested (since I'm athletic) and they have been insulted like you wouldn't believe. One of my friends have heard guys say to each other as she passed "yea, but she's flat..." I felt so bad for her. She claimed her BFs would pretty much ignore that part of her body when they were in bed. Eventually she got sick of it... Then she got reasonably sized implants, and that all changed. She's happily married now. Could be the confidence it gave her... could be that men finally gave her a chance. Not sure. Unless a woman has a very pretty face (ie Natalie Portman), she will be at a severe disadvantage in the dating world. I would never judge a woman who was that flat and got moderate sized and well done implants... Just as I would never judge someone who had severely crooked teeth and got braces. They are correcting what many people would consider a physical deformity. ok, this is a bit of an overkill, don't you think? My sister is flat chested and she never had an issue finding men who find her attractive and no, she doesn't have the prettiest face. In fact, she did better than I did in dating with my DDDs. It really depends on the whole package. Link to post Share on other sites
KungFuJoe Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah my DDDs. Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah. I'm sorry...what did you say? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
TheBigQuestion Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Oh, pardon me for injecting a bit of reality regarding the experiences of real women. Try this on for size then... some very flat chested women have faced some very negative experiences in life... to the extent that their flat-ness can be considered a physical deformity. You don't have to agree with me, you only have to ponder the possibility that many others do. Some of them will get implants. Not all of those who attempt to get even reasonable sized implants will end up having them look 'real' and certainly not feel real. ... and yes, based on my experience posting on LS, the men here who insist on real also have never been in a committed relationship with a flat chested woman. Have you? But that is fine. You are allowed to have your preferences. Frankly, I don't understand why some men are so obsessed with knowing if a woman's breasts are real or not... I'm very glad my friend's husband didn't care. Do you open your date's mouth and check out the number of fillings she has? Do you ask her to roll her eyes around 10 times to check for contact lenses? Seriously... it's all the same if you ask me. "Do men prefer women who refuse to wear glasses?" "Do men prefer women who don't have fillings in their teeth? These are all cosmetic adjustments to correct physical deformities or problems. Not sure why one is judged so much harsher than another. Both of my long-term relationships, including the one I am currently in, have been with women who at best have small B cups. So yes, I have dated women who could reasonably be called "flat," and I still find most fake breasts to be a turn-off. Do you have any additional moronic assumptions for me to debunk today? You're also leaving out the very large demographic of women who get breast implants who were NOT negative A-cups prior to surgery. Plenty of women in the B/C range (and even bigger than that) get implants, and it isn't because they're deformed. Some of them just have an aesthetic preference for bigger breasts. Some are superficial and delusional. I think people are more preoccupied with breasts because they are prominent secondary sex characteristics. No one is "harshly judging" anything. Plenty of threads here have discussed penis size, height, shoulder width, muscularity, and so forth, and often times these discussions have devolved into more harsh "judgment" than has been displayed here. In the case of either gender, it's what people like to talk about. If you don't like it, don't read it or participate in it. Again, this is a thread to discuss whether men find fake breasts aesthetically appealing and why. If you want to talk about flat chested women's motivations for getting breast implants, start your own thread. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 The men who insist on natural are talking about B's and bigger. If a woman is truly flat chested, it is pretty much the equivalent of having a micro penis is for a man. I have friends who are very flat chested (since I'm athletic) and they have been insulted like you wouldn't believe. One of my friends have heard guys say to each other as she passed "yea, but she's flat..." I felt so bad for her. She claimed her BFs would pretty much ignore that part of her body when they were in bed. Eventually she got sick of it... Then she got reasonably sized implants, and that all changed. She's happily married now. Could be the confidence it gave her... could be that men finally gave her a chance. Not sure. Unless a woman has a very pretty face (ie Natalie Portman), she will be at a severe disadvantage in the dating world. I would never judge a woman who was that flat and got moderate sized and well done implants... Just as I would never judge someone who had severely crooked teeth and got braces. They are correcting what many people would consider a physical deformity. Would take natural A's over fake anything. Im serious. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TheBigQuestion Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Would take natural A's over fake anything. Im serious. I wouldn't go as far as "over fake anything," but I'm in general agreement. It's no use though. The poster you're quoting has obviously already made up her mind about the issue. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dakotaross14 Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 Interesting, perhaps some photos will enlighten us about the situation, lol. Is it that they are too big? I think if a woman has big boobs, outside of LA, then its easy to assume they are fake. There's really no reason for a woman to get them, unless she is really insecure, and is desperate for male attention or she works in media or as a stripper. Fake boobs just make men treat a woman as a ditzy, physical object because they become so prominent and noticeable on her body. They also make men think she is easy to sleep with, because of her insecurities or need for attention. Yeah that's what I mean. I have a 32D. I'm 36 around the bust 24 in waist and 32 in hips. People think I'm too busty because my main body feature is my breasts. But that's like someone's butt or abs being their main features no one says someone has a fake butt because its big... Link to post Share on other sites
RedRobin Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 (edited) Yeah that's what I mean. I have a 32D. I'm 36 around the bust 24 in waist and 32 in hips. People think I'm too busty because my main body feature is my breasts. But that's like someone's butt or abs being their main features no one says someone has a fake butt because its big... Well, actually, yea. Someone did with me once. Someone yelled out of the car "Is that a silicone butt?" No. I have a natural bubble butt... and I'm athletic. So there is no dieting it away... I can see why you'd be annoyed though. I was. The need and, let say, desire for some men to make these obnoxious judgments and statements regarding women's bodies is ridiculous. Maybe us women should start asking random men on the street what their dick size is? Or maybe just point and laugh at their crotches regardless of what they have or don't have... That would be an interesting experiment, needless to say... on the other hand, no need for innocent men to suffer just because of a few jerks. Edited July 22, 2013 by RedRobin Link to post Share on other sites
mesmerized Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 I'm sorry...what did you say? Well, that's how they were before...Not anymore Still good though, I guess. Link to post Share on other sites
Phoe Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 I think if a woman has big boobs, outside of LA, then its easy to assume they are fake. Lol all the women with natural big breasts live in LA? I did not know this! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
USMCHokie Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 I'm not a fan of fake. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dakotaross14 Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 Lol all the women with natural big breasts live in LA? I did not know this! That's exactly what I was thinking as well. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dakotaross14 Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 Lol all the women with natural big breasts live in LA? I did not know this! That's exactly what I was thinking as well. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jcrew11 Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Lol all the women with natural big breasts live in LA? I did not know this! Well, around LA, most of the women have fake breasts, so there's really no need contemplate whether they are real. But seeing fake breasts on the east coast is so jarring and unusual, that the only women I've seen with fake breasts work as strippers, and want the male attention. Link to post Share on other sites
hppr Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 But what if they were real? Like maybe I phrased my question wrong but what if they looked fake but they were actually real. Like I assume since they do look bad that natural ones that looked similar would look fake as well or what? You can usually tell by looking at them. Not sure I've ever seen real ones that I thought were fake either, there's a certain bounce to real boobies vs the fake uns. Also, there is GOOD cosmetic surgery and BAD cosmetic surgery. Like I said earlier I love em all but there is something to be said for kissing a big ole pair of natural hooters too... Link to post Share on other sites
hppr Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Lol all the women with natural big breasts live in LA? I did not know this! LOL yeah no fake hoo hoos in LA, not a one... Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Fake boobs look and feel terrible. I remember squeezing them softly because I thought I would pop them if I squeezed harder. Lame. Please, for any ladies reading, do not get fake boobs. Link to post Share on other sites
Seductive Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 I'm not a man, but I find fake breasts very attractive. They just look so.......fun....I will take the men's word for it if they don't feel good. Link to post Share on other sites
ptp Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 (edited) Not unattractive, but not as attractive as real ones. I would prefer any sort of natural ones to fake ones. I don't know, there is something very sexy about natural ones, anybody can buy fake ones. Edited July 23, 2013 by ptp Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dakotaross14 Posted July 24, 2013 Author Share Posted July 24, 2013 Not unattractive, but not as attractive as real ones. I would prefer any sort of natural ones to fake ones. I don't know, there is something very sexy about natural ones, anybody can buy fake ones. yeah but what about in the case of fake looking real ones? here's a pic of the type of look I'm talking about... nicole-richie1_zps4a14ed55.jpg Photo by nickiem19 | Photobucket images1_zpsf7d6041c.jpg Photo by nickiem19 | Photobucket this picture especially. I have allegedly a size bigger than this chick 21c98bf02eb1db09c63e04146474654f_m_zps86bc5464.jpg Photo by nickiem19 | Photobucket oherwise the last 2 pics are definitely alike Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I'm curious. Because I always hear people complaining how fake boobs look. I don't get though why would round perky boobs be a bad thing? Like what's wrong with that look? Why is it unnattractive to many? Cuz it was never about the "round, perky" part in the first place. We want your boobs to be like your fingerprint. (can't believe I've already used this line in earlier posts this evening: ) Just think how dull and boring those forensics tv shows would be if 15, 200, or 4.5 million people could have the same fingerprint. So what say you take off your clothes... and unveil your body... and boldly let whoever you're with be unmistakably clear that you want to be near them??? Link to post Share on other sites
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