affairaddict Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Wasn't clear enough Friday so things were not exactly left. Anyway sent something stronger Don't ever contact me again not when you miss me or any other reason. If you do I won't reply this time. 100 percent. This is for the best. I refuse to be this other woman anymore. Should your situation ever change then and only then can you make contact. What will be will be in life." He didn't reply. I feel sad. I'm sure he's sad but it's his loss and he created his own sadness. I am free now. Link to post Share on other sites
hippetyhop Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Wasn't clear enough Friday so things were not exactly left. Anyway sent something stronger Don't ever contact me again not when you miss me or any other reason. If you do I won't reply this time. 100 percent. This is for the best. I refuse to be this other woman anymore. Should your situation ever change then and only then can you make contact. What will be will be in life." He didn't reply. I feel sad. I'm sure he's sad but it's his loss and he created his own sadness. I am free now. Hopefully he respects and follows through with the NC and you do as well. Sometimes no response is the best response. I received my response within 15 minutes. I wasn't looking for him to pour his heart out, but I wasn't expecting what I received either. Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 It's not the first time but I've called time. But my strongest words and attempt. He came back last time after I said NC . He is not the man to pour his heart out so I will never get that or perhaps doesn't even feel that but I know it's the right decision. Link to post Share on other sites
Pierre Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 If he truly cares for you, but has to get married he will remain NC. If he is selfish and wants to eat cake he will reply. No reply means he truly cares. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 Sounds mad, but believe thats true. I think he will stick to it this time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 What a horrible horrible day. I never want to do this day again utterly miserable Link to post Share on other sites
GettingOver Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 What a horrible horrible day. I never want to do this day again utterly miserable I am sending you hugs, I guess you have mixed feelings. It hurts to push our loved ones away, even if the relationship is totally wrong... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Praying4Peace Posted July 22, 2013 Share Posted July 22, 2013 Yay! Good for you. Are you proud of yourself? You should be! You're awesome for cutting it off cold turkey like that. Don't think he's okay, thought right now your own mental health is a number one priority. But don't think the face that you DUMPED him is not bothering him. You just showed that you are worth so much more and he's probably waking up and realizing you're right. Think about how much better you feel now than you would if he was still stringing you along...getting married...telling you "Oops I gotta go NC during my honeymoon" and you waiting at home miserable and feeling like the worthless person he's treating you as. It's going to be hard and its going to hurt but just keep reading and posting and go do something fun to get your mind off of things. Something that you enjoy and that makes you feel good, even if it is silly. Also- let your emotions out. Cry as much as you need to. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 22, 2013 Author Share Posted July 22, 2013 I felt awesome when sending it like power to the people! Then during the day I thought it must have stung and I felt bad but because I have empathy and I know I'm more important than how he feels that have I hurt him will fade I know it will. I've cried today at the thought of never speaking to him again ever. It's like grieving for a dead person. I'm worried that he will act odd and then the truth will all come out at home as how can you disguise it? I would prefer no D day . Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 23, 2013 Author Share Posted July 23, 2013 A firework, a dancing flame You won't ever put me out again I'm glowing, oh woah oh So you can keep the diamond ring It dont mean nothing anyway In fact you can keep everything Yeah, yeah Except for me! Katy perry Link to post Share on other sites
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