Ryan R. Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 Zero drawbacks?? How about: 1) High chances of contacting an STD 2) He can revert back to his old ways and cheat; the more promiscuous someone is (man or woman), the less likely they'll be faithful Of all the "manwhores" I know, zero have contracted an STD. Most STDs can be cured or medicated away anyway. I also know several former "manwhores" who are in very strong committed relationships. Someone's ability to cheat is not determined by how much they sleep around. People who get married to the first person they've ever slept with cheat as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan R. Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 Ummmm, LOL? You're comparing ability to move around to having sex? One is pretty much mandatory thing in your life (and even disabled people have ways to do it), other one is not. Also one thing involves two people, and other person has to want it too. You don't need other person's consent to move around, do you? Both of them are something that people take for granted either way. The ability to get someone to easily sleep with your or the ability to easily walk. Some people can easily attract sexual attention and can then choose if they want to sleep with them or not. For some people, it's like putting a piece of bread in the toaster. If you have a significant other, its pretty much guaranteed that he or she will want to sleep with with you. If you have legs, its pretty much guaranteed that you can use them to walk. Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 Both of them are something that people take for granted either way. The ability to get someone to easily sleep with your or the ability to easily walk. Some people can easily attract sexual attention and can then choose if they want to sleep with them or not. For some people, it's like putting a piece of bread in the toaster. If you have a significant other, its pretty much guaranteed that he or she will want to sleep with with you. If you have legs, its pretty much guaranteed that you can use them to walk. Ryan.. Let me tell you this, bro...and I think you get it.. Women say one thing and do another..They say size doesnt matter, yet they want a guy with a big dick...They say they love how a guy is nice and sweet, yet fall for the douchebag with the Porsche or the hot body..They say they dont like casual sex, when they have a closet ful of skeketons.. As a guy with more years on you, take it from me here...Its real.. I wish you well TFY Link to post Share on other sites
Pompeii Posted July 27, 2013 Share Posted July 27, 2013 "Huge red flag" doesn't even begin to describe it. Most people will look at you as if you have a tumor growing out of the side of your head if you say that. That's why you keep your mouth shut and play along. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Saraswati57 Posted July 27, 2013 Author Share Posted July 27, 2013 "Huge red flag" doesn't even begin to describe it. Most people will look at you as if you have a tumor growing out of the side of your head if you say that. That's why you keep your mouth shut and play along. At least people on here are honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Southern Cal Dude Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 I don't like casual sex. You kind of answer this yourself. Off course women that have casual sex would want the male equivalent of them; they themselves aren't looking for committed relationships and want someone just as experienced as them. I've seen many women claim to want relationships yet secretly have FWBs, FBs, and go home with guys from clubs/bars. Zero drawbacks?? How about: 1) High chances of contacting an STD 2) He can revert back to his old ways and cheat; the more promiscuous someone is (man or woman), the less likely they'll be faithful That's not a deterrent. Sexual attraction always trumps logic. Thats why we have an STD(especially HPV) epidemic. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
samsungxoxo Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 (edited) I've seen many women claim to want relationships yet secretly have FWBs, FBs, and go home with guys from clubs/bars.I've only had 1 partner (by then bf) and I'm 26 years old. I've been single for a very long time now. Nope, never had FWB's, never had casual sex and don't go to parties frequently (very seldom but it's only to talk with certain friends I've known for ages). In addition, I've always been an introvert. Therefore, I think it's fair that I demand the same in return. Edited July 28, 2013 by samsungxoxo Link to post Share on other sites
Pompeii Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 I've only had 1 partner (by then bf) and I'm 26 years old. I've been single for a very long time now. Nope, never had FWB's, never had casual sex and don't go to parties frequently (very seldom but it's only to talk with certain friends I've known for ages). In addition, I've always been an introvert. Therefore, I think it's fair that I demand the same in return. I've seen lots of girls break their "rules" for a guy who was otherwise inaccessible or would only be available for short period of time. You'd be surprised what happens when you're an aesthetic guy visiting from another school for the weekend. The girl will make sure she does SOMETHING with you in that time period because she may never get another chance. Link to post Share on other sites
samsungxoxo Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 I've seen lots of girls break their "rules" for a guy who was otherwise inaccessible or would only be available for short period of time. You'd be surprised what happens when you're an aesthetic guy visiting from another school for the weekend. The girl will make sure she does SOMETHING with you in that time period because she may never get another chance.Why are you assuming I'm going to have casual sex? I don't like that. When something is not in you, then it's not. I'm looking forward towards finishing my major and traveling. Link to post Share on other sites
Pompeii Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 Why are you assuming I'm going to have casual sex? I don't like that. When something is not in you, then it's not. I'm looking forward towards finishing my major and traveling. I'm not talking about you. Link to post Share on other sites
samsungxoxo Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 (edited) I'm not talking about you.But you said many broke the rule and how it only takes anaesthetic guy for it to happen. I'm not included in the ''many'' sample. Edited July 28, 2013 by samsungxoxo Link to post Share on other sites
Pompeii Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 But you said many broke the rule and how it only takes anaesthetic guy for it to happen. I'm not included in the ''many'' sample. Good for you. Do you want a medal? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Saraswati57 Posted July 28, 2013 Author Share Posted July 28, 2013 The more I read this, the more I figure a 28 year old virgin is pretty much screwed. Link to post Share on other sites
El Brujo Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 I've been seeing new school books for kids that teach that it's ok to be a virgin. Maybe somebody should do something about this. Link to post Share on other sites
Pompeii Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 The more I read this, the more I figure a 28 year old virgin is pretty much screwed. Can I give you one suggestion? Get off this ****ing site. It's just a giant echo chamber that has no real resolution to any problems. This site is a bunch of BS and I've started to realize that a couple months ago but I come here just to see the inane banter that results when you put sexually frustrated men and unsatisfied women together on an internet forum. In fact, if you watch TV, unplug it. It's no good. I'm already well on my way to being a millionaire by the time I reach 30 and most of the people on this site don't like that. They're content with living sub-average lives, hating their jobs, and hating the relationships they get into. I've already told myself that I'm going to reach the top and I'll be damned if any crabs are going to drag me back down into the pit. **** that. Anyway, get off this site and figure out who you are. Most people on here don't have your self interest and will give you "smoke in the chamber" advice. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Saraswati57 Posted July 28, 2013 Author Share Posted July 28, 2013 Can I give you one suggestion? Get off this ****ing site. It's just a giant echo chamber that has no real resolution to any problems. This site is a bunch of BS and I've started to realize that a couple months ago but I come here just to see the inane banter that results when you put sexually frustrated men and unsatisfied women together on an internet forum. In fact, if you watch TV, unplug it. It's no good. I'm already well on my way to being a millionaire by the time I reach 30 and most of the people on this site don't like that. They're content with living sub-average lives, hating their jobs, and hating the relationships they get into. I've already told myself that I'm going to reach the top and I'll be damned if any crabs are going to drag me back down into the pit. **** that. Anyway, get off this site and figure out who you are. Most people on here don't have your self interest and will give you "smoke in the chamber" advice. That's probably not bad advice in general, I've always lingered on forums and they've only been an enabling device. Link to post Share on other sites
Pompeii Posted July 30, 2013 Share Posted July 30, 2013 That's probably not bad advice in general, I've always lingered on forums and they've only been an enabling device. Yeah, I'm planning on calling it quits myself soon. Link to post Share on other sites
DannyMason Posted July 30, 2013 Share Posted July 30, 2013 The more I read this, the more I figure a 28 year old virgin is pretty much screwed. Not necessarily. I've done a lot of research on the topic of prolonged virginity since I'm a 25 year old virgin myself. You're in a bad position, but not any way near incurable. I've heard reports of guys losing their virginity and finding love in their late 40s, an age when many men would actually begin to lose their physiological ability to have sex at all. View it as a self improvement project. You'll be OK. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Tim Sullivan Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 Can I give you one suggestion? Get off this ****ing site. It's just a giant echo chamber that has no real resolution to any problems. This site is a bunch of BS and I've started to realize that a couple months ago but I come here just to see the inane banter that results when you put sexually frustrated men and unsatisfied women together on an internet forum. In fact, if you watch TV, unplug it. It's no good. I'm already well on my way to being a millionaire by the time I reach 30 and most of the people on this site don't like that. They're content with living sub-average lives, hating their jobs, and hating the relationships they get into. I've already told myself that I'm going to reach the top and I'll be damned if any crabs are going to drag me back down into the pit. **** that. Anyway, get off this site and figure out who you are. Most people on here don't have your self interest and will give you "smoke in the chamber" advice. This is the best advice i have seen anybody give so far. Link to post Share on other sites
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