littlehope Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 I've noticed a newish behaviour, doubt I had it a few years ago.. I feel like everytime I get to know someone new I'm looking for reasons to close the door on them, quick as possible. It doesn't make any sense really and I do it automatically. I think somehow it's going to make them respect me more, because I "respect" myself by shutting them out when they "Misbehave" and it's a prominent behaviour online, rather than offline where I'm just shy and withdrawing. I can easily tell someone I love them lots one day and the next I can tell them to go away forever and block them. I would never ignore someone however, I always say what I "mean". Does anyone feel like they behave in a similar way? Do I need help? Sure, I been hurt a few times but I have a very social job that I'm good at. I would never be able to go back with an ex, simply cos I've told them off so much that they're scared of me.. not that I want to. My ex best friends are also ex best friends, and that's harder because I do miss them at times but I don't really know how to change my behaviour, I feel like they see me as some cold creature Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted July 23, 2013 Share Posted July 23, 2013 Sounds like you've been hurt and you're putting up a lot of walls to protect yourself. Opening up is always a risk, but without taking such a risk you'll find it much harder to find the right person. Link to post Share on other sites
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