Approaching women during the day time

[Ryan R.]

I have come to the conclusion that if I want to get girls, I will have no choice but to approach women during the day time. I simply have no other options to meet girls and I have no social circle. I am attempting to get over my approach anxiety but it is quite difficult. It's just something I need to do. I'm almost 22, still a virgin. I'm not getting younger and I'm not getting any more experienced.

 

I'm going back to my roots and digging up stuff on how to do day approaches. Who here is an experienced day approacher? I need some tips.

[T3h L337 d00d]

I think you should approach women at night in big parking garages! Just kidding haha most girls would probably be too scared at night in the garage.

 

Yes, of course meet women during the day. Don't let your virginity make you think less of yourself. You'll be the same guy you are now after you see a girl naked and do stuff to her. Same guy hopefully less awkward haha.

 

Here's a tip just do it and than come back and entertain me with your story. Do you have any errands to run tomorrow? A crowded park you can take your lunch? Get out there and say "hello" to some pretty girls and take it from there. Ask them to join you for dinner. This stuff isn't that complicate.

 

You know what would be really romantic. If you go to a piano store and by chance a pretty girl is playing chopsticks and you sit down next to her and help her play chop sticks. Yeah man use that one. Or go to a toy store that has a floor piano and dance a duet with her on it.

[Patrickd12]

You can meet girls anywhere. Just remember at the end of the day they are just humans; be yourself and just talk to them, don't ask them out right away try to get there contact and move forward from there.

 

What's the worst that can happen ? they say no ? who cares, next.

 

Just smile, eye contact and talk.

[Eve]

Just don't do the shouting across the way thing or have friends with you watching you. Good Lord, don't do that. That's crass. Shakes my feminism up pretty badly.

 

I know it is a big deal to you to be a virgin but some women won't mind. I hope you hear that. I am the second woman my H has slept with and he was virgin longer than you. Theres nothing wrong with him, well except he thinks he knows everything but that's just him. His bits and pieces work just fine. It's who you are that counts.

 

Aim to just talk to the person. I would vote for not using lines, unless the woman is a bit thick like me and seems to not understand that you are chatting them up. Be subtle but not callous. Then again, I don't know your type, just trying to encourage you to take risks.

 

Always take risks I say. Life is movement.

 

Take care,

Eve x

[Ryan R.]

Just don't do the shouting across the way thing or have friends with you watching you. Good Lord, don't do that. That's crass. Shakes my feminism up pretty badly.

 

I know it is a big deal to you to be a virgin but some women won't mind. I hope you hear that. I am the second woman my H has slept with and he was virgin longer than you. Theres nothing wrong with him, well except he thinks he knows everything but that's just him. His bits and pieces work just fine. It's who you are that counts.

 

Aim to just talk to the person. I would vote for not using lines, unless the woman is a bit thick like me and seems to not understand that you are chatting them up. Be subtle but not callous. Then again, I don't know your type, just trying to encourage you to take risks.

 

Always take risks I say. Life is movement.

 

Take care,

Eve x

 

Yeah, I don't catcall. I'm definitely more inexperienced with women than I'd like to be. I'm almost 22 and I haven't even kissed a girl, Eve. That's a problem. I'm 8 years to 30. 8 years ago, I was just starting high school. I just need to get out there and do it. I will get rejected quite often but I can't let that bother me.