dazed&confused28 Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 Ok, so my ex and I are communicating after our breakup. He and I dated for 2 years and he started pushing me away in June, finally in July I got the nerve to ask him some question and figured it out. I've maintained no contact for 4 months, except on his b'day, when I sent a little email, only "Happy B'day". I got a note back but I really didn't respond to it, it was about my book he found at his place. I emailed him again this month about the book, I kept it simple and direct "Let me know when you are free, so I can come by and get my book. If you are not comfortable, let me know I'll arrange for something else". Instead of him replying to my email about my book, I got a friendly note back! Finally at the end of the day he's said"Maybe we can get together sometime and catch up on things", I emailed back and said "that sounds nice". And for the next week, we've emailed each other back and forth at work only. I have not called him. We fell apart because of my living situation. Now I'm living in a easier situation. He asked me about that and was happy for me. He's also stated "I wish that could of happened for you sooner or I wish that would have happened for you a while ago" He's also asked me about my parents and my relationship. Alot of question that are related to us to falling apart as a couple. Personal things, a ex really wouldn't care to ask another ex about after a break-up, especially if he's not intersted. We've been talking for 2 weeks now via email at work. He's told me he's going here and there, doing this and that, and so on. Sometimes he'll repeat things 4 to 5 times in a email, like he's trying to tell me something or ask me. He's also said he's been going to town alone or byhimself. Well today he said this, and he's confusing me again. "I haven't really been into Halloween in a while. I guess I would be if I had a reason." HUH???? Then he says " I haven't done too much the past couple of weeks so this weekend will definitely have to be fun. It sounds like you stay pretty busy yourself though." I never said such a thing! Well, I replied back and told him I was just hanging around the house most of the time, but I try to get out of the house during the weekends. I've been keeping my response to 1 or 2 lines, while his are going from 1 to 2 lines to a paragraph or 2. He's become chatty. He told me when we first started dating, he never talks to the girl he breaks up with or who dumps him. I'm happy he's talking to me, I expected him to drop me forever. Do you think this is his way of trying to get back with me??? Link to post Share on other sites
lostNconfusedx10 Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 it sounds like he's basically trying to tell you "hey my schedual is pretty much wide open so if you want to do something, ask me" Kind of a round the bout way of asking without really putting himself out there to be rejected. His ego was prolly hurt enough after the breakup that he doesnt want another hit to it. If you want it, go for it. It sounds like he's waiting for you to make a move Link to post Share on other sites
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