dreamingofyou1996 Posted October 27, 2004 Share Posted October 27, 2004 [font=arial][/font][color=blue][/color] Ok here 's the story I have been friends with 4 friends for years since I was 16ish, Im now 24! I will change names Cathy, James, Iggy, and Jerry. Well they have all turned on me, me and my boyfriend broke up last year because he decided he was going to have a fling and we were together for 5 years at that point. Noone wanted us together, everyone had issues with me and I must add that James and-Jerry have been my friends since 16 which was before I got with my boyfriend. Now Iggy got hooked up with this girl who is 19 and Iggy is like 38 and she took off with my boyfriend for two nights and slept in a bed with him (supposively nothing ever happened) Well from that point This girl has been the hell of my life! She used to start fights with me constantly and try throwing beer bottles at me and so forth, also leave me threatening text messages, I decided at that time to file a complaint with the police and nothing ever happened this was Oct. 2002. She is now engaged to IGGY and Iggy is my boyfriends friend of over 10 years which my boyfriend and Iggy don't talk anymore because of certain circumstances. Well me and my boyfriend got back together in August 2003 and I decided to throw everything away and start fresh which meant give her a chance at friendship, I had some doubts and wish I stuck to that! Everything went peachy till Nov 2003 after me and my boyfriend got an apartment, she started acting strangly and if things didn't go her way at my house she would make nasty comments about it, then we all decided to go bowling one night me, my boyfriend, Iggy and the finance, Jerry and his wife. Well we had a good-time till the night was over and we were walking to our cars and look as if Iggy and his finance( the girl) were arguing, then IGGY started walking towards me and started yelling , and then proceeded to spit in my face and my boyfriend was like what the hell is wrong with you , so i jetted for my car and got in it, then my boyfriend tried to get in the passenger side till Iggy pulled him away and told his finance to take care of her and then jumped in my car and started kicking things and punching me in the head and for what because she didn't like my attitude, let me remind you I was 24 she was 18 at this time. I ended up screwing out of there and suddenly everyone and there mother had problem with me. I decided at that point I wanted nothing to do with anyone but my boyfriend, well I then started getting mail sent to my home pics of my boyfriend and his ex-fling, also threatening phone calls and im's. I reported it and there is a complaint processing now against them for harassment. The problem is we got a continuance till Nov 2004 and they are still typing **** on the computer and the cops do nothing about it. I concerned that after the date it will end up being dropped and this will continue. I never did nothing to these people. I don't understand how people can be so hateful for nothing. Just because I don't act a certain way do give you the right to hurt me. I freak-en fuming, and sad all at the same time.They want My boyfriend to hang out with them but he won't because of how they are acting and what they have done, its his choice that he wants to be with me not theirs. The sad part is if me and my boyfriend knew what we know now we could of saved so much time and actually hung out with people who are real! Any advice??? I think she is plain and simple jealous, because I was her competetor and jerry's wife is not anything to brag about, she hates me too because I dated jerry before my boyfriend now, people don't know how get over it I guess!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
hulavie Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 It's very sad when old friends/ childhood friends turn on us. Such a sickening feeling. When I had constant arguments with some old friends some time back, I gave up on them and disappeared on purpose for two years without contact, got on with my life, made new friends...... One day we bumped into each other and we were hugging and in tears and keep saying how stupid we were to have lost contact..... it's like... hello! not a single one of us brought up all the topic of the last quarrel which caused the silence. Human beings! Hang out with some other people for a while..... OR Since they say they dislike you, and if you feel like ironing out the creases..... talk to them one at a time and straighten out your differences. Link to post Share on other sites
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