Seeing ex this week

[swimswithjeans]

I honestly understand where you're coming from. Truly.... And it is such a hard situation to be in where it seems to me that you are holding on to a sliver of hope. No one can blame you for that... But the last thing that I would want for you is for you to lose out on someone else that might come along when you have your hopes set on someone who doesn't seem to have their hopes set on you.

 

You've been in his life for a very, very long time and it makes sense to me that he probably simply missed you, but not in the same capacity that you missed him. I think he cares for you deeply, and maybe loves you, but is not in love with you.

 

I think you're doing the right thing by giving him space right now. I'm not telling you to give up hope or go completely no contact (I mean, if you have it in you, do it!), but I'm saying to try and keep a cool perspective and not get more invested than he is at this point.

 

I- like many others here- know it's difficult. I think you should be proud of the way you have handled things thus far. It seems very collected to me. Well done.

[daftpunk]

:shrug:

 

Do as you will. I can assure you that this filthy mudball of a planet will continue to spin regardless of what you decide upon.

[dsd85]

Guess what I was trying to get at is that I can't expect a reconciliation to be easy and for him to want to jump back in my arms from one meeting. That's why I say I agree but then always say a "but". It's me saying that I've come this far to get him to meet with me. It's not easy for him to do that, just like it wasn't for me. So, I can't expect it to be as simple S one meeting and he wants me back. He doesn't. I know this. If he did he would tell me. I was hoping by me earning his trust he might get there...that's all. I realize most people on here don't believe in second chances but i do. Sorry.

[Jenny1234]

Guess what I was trying to get at is that I can't expect a reconciliation to be easy and for him to want to jump back in my arms from one meeting. That's why I say I agree but then always say a "but". It's me saying that I've come this far to get him to meet with me. It's not easy for him to do that, just like it wasn't for me. So, I can't expect it to be as simple S one meeting and he wants me back. He doesn't. I know this. If he did he would tell me. I was hoping by me earning his trust he might get there...that's all. I realize most people on here don't believe in second chances but i do. Sorry.

 

 

 

I am cheering for you. I hope all turns out well. We live in one crazy world. You never know what can happen! He might come around he might not...who knows. But in the end you won't regret not trying. Baby steps!

[ConfusedHumanBeing]

Guess what I was trying to get at is that I can't expect a reconciliation to be easy and for him to want to jump back in my arms from one meeting. That's why I say I agree but then always say a "but". It's me saying that I've come this far to get him to meet with me. It's not easy for him to do that, just like it wasn't for me. So, I can't expect it to be as simple S one meeting and he wants me back. He doesn't. I know this. If he did he would tell me. I was hoping by me earning his trust he might get there...that's all. I realize most people on here don't believe in second chances but i do. Sorry.

 

Lol no one ANYWHERE said they don't believe in second chances. If you have to convince someone to be with you, then its not worth it. You want SO BADLY to believe its going to work (and weve all been there). Youre not convincing him of anything other than you are too obseessed with him. Learn from your own mistakes dear and I hope it works out for you I honestly do.....but the large mistakes you are making will be your downfall.