Emma1234 Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I have recently suffered from a break up and it still hurts like hell nearly 3 months later. I'm trying to focus on moving forward now so does anyone have any positive stories about moving on from someone who broke your heart after a long term relationship. Stories about meeting someone even better and loving again That would be so so helpful, thank you Link to post Share on other sites
Confused_Soul_23 Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 Yes 2/3 years ago I fell in love for the first time only for her to break my heart took me about 4/5 months to get over her. I was just messing women about myself then not really caring, until last year I met someone and it was different. Had an even better connection than my first love. Unfortunately I am back in the same situation as we split around 6/7 weeks ago. i still think this one is the one but only in the next couple of months will I know. Even if it doesn't happen another one will come along, but I'm only 23 so I have time on my side. Link to post Share on other sites
Philosoraptor Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I have recently suffered from a break up and it still hurts like hell nearly 3 months later. I'm trying to focus on moving forward now so does anyone have any positive stories about moving on from someone who broke your heart after a long term relationship. Stories about meeting someone even better and loving again That would be so so helpful, thank you Went through a pretty bad one about 2 years ago. Were together 5 years, had a house and a life together. Thought I would never move on and was heartbroken. Dated a bit and had a few short relationships. September 2012 met an amazing woman and were getting married June 2014. Just allow your heart to fully heal, be patient, be open, and allow yourself to give it to another when you're ready. Link to post Share on other sites
Steelergirl Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 I can't say I'm completely out of the woods yet, but today I had a revelation that maybe, just maybe, I'm grateful for the boatload of hurt I've gone through. Because it absolutely FORCED me to take a good look at myself and I know I will never again allow someone to treat me like my ex did. I was pathetic, and when I've come out the other end of this, I'll be stronger and more self-aware. I feel like the relationship and subsequent (horrendous!) ending was a signpost leading me back to myself, and believe me I was lost! So hang in there, look within and be strong, you will come out of this better than before! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emma1234 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Share Posted July 26, 2013 Thank you, I truly hope so. It's just do hard letting go of the memories and the times and the feelings and who he was. But that person has either changed or I never really knew him properly because the guy I loved would never hurt me in this way. We will move forward Link to post Share on other sites
supaflyz Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 I'm pretty much over her. Just some residue feelings left. I guess I miss a companionship more than her now. I fell head and heels over her. It was a bad breakup. We both said some things that shouldn't have been said to each other. I did learn a lot about myself this past 3 months. I'm seeking help and want to change some of the things so that I could come out a better man for my next relationship. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Legatus Posted July 26, 2013 Share Posted July 26, 2013 I'm just like @supaflyz, almost 3 months since the break-up and only occasionally I ask myself some questions and think about her but in general I am too busy to do that. I met few people, one would say "by accident", lovely two girls on a train while I was on holiday last two weeks. They live in another country but I hope we'll stay in touch.. I actually found myself being more outgoing and social, which is weird as I have never been like that. I smile all the time and I noticed I actually meet more people. I talked to a couple who played on the streets of the city I was spending time in, and got them as a client for my company. I won't be able to completely get her out of my head, mostly because we lived together for a year and I have no intention of moving, but the good thing is I've got other memories with that house too, and will have plenty more. Now those memories are almost like any other.. Life gets better Emma - it just happens when you're ready Link to post Share on other sites
Author Emma1234 Posted July 26, 2013 Author Share Posted July 26, 2013 Thank you everyone, today has been a huge turning point for me, it's like something has shifted. We will all get through this! I can't wait to hear where people are at a few months down the line 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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