aydensmommy Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 i am kelly, im 19! i have a 4 month old son. my ex boyfriend michael and i were together 5 years on and off. when i finally moved to arizona from oregon to be with him in aug of 2012 everything was great! in sept. 2012 i found out i was pregnant, we were so happy! thats when things started changing with him. about 2 months later he started abusing me, most of the time it was because i confronted him about looking up sex ads on craigslist. i knew he was cheating or at least trying to. he started posting ads on craigslist for swingers (which im not in to) and telling me if i loved him i would do it and it was the only way to save us. in november 2012 he made me move to my moms, she moved to arizona to be with me when baby came, so i moved there until january. late jan 2013 i moved back with michael. worst choice!!! i was 5 months pregnant thats when the beating really started. he choked me out and almost killed me, he pointed a gun at me, he would punch me in the stomach and ovaries, or would smash my head against the bricks. i was scared and didnt know what to do, so i stayed. i tried to tell his family, they didnt listen. this beating continued for months! april 11th i gave birth to my precious son ayden. but 2 days before i was hospitalized for contractions but was sent home. come to find out he was texting a girl from work whom he cheated on me with and told her HE was in the hospital from a bike accident (hes a cyclist). he beat me that night, fractured 4 ribs on my left side. he beat me into early labor i had ayden 5 weeks early because of him. luckily there were no problems with ayden we got our own apartment may 1st 2013 and this is the last time he beat me. this time was the worst. i was holding ayden and he punched me in the head and ayden rolled out of my arms and onto the bed but before he grabbed my hair i rolled ayden on his back and told him i loved him and he was okay. michael then dragged me to the kitchen by my hair and told me i was a slut and a cunt, he started kicking me in the face and head and attempted to grab my throat which he succeeded and i ended up throwing up. i had bleeding in the uterus form him kicking and punching me. he left and went to his friends house, i called his mom in oklahoma told her what happened and she bought me a plane ticket, now im in oklahoma and just married the love of my life robert who has never hurt me or ayden and makes sure we have everything we need. i am so greatful for a great family who got me out of that situation before ayden or i ended up dead. i still cry and get nightmares of him beating me.... but i get stronger everyday, and i am not weak i was strong enough to leave! i am proud of myself for getting my son out of there. thank you for reading kelly p.s., feel free top leave comments!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Toddbt12y1 Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I am glad that you have gotten yourself and son out of that dangerous situation. This sickens me. This disease(I refuse to call such people; animals are better)..should be killed. He musta felt powerful beating a pregnant woman and her holding her baby. He should be beaten to death. First have his cheating dick ripped off! Why no one believed you..is crazy. Worse; why didn't the medical staff contact the police(or anyone )...when you went into early labor? He should be jailed...for as long as possible. I am glad you have a better man. You needed someone who'd love you and your son. Why weren't the police involved? Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I'm so happy that there was a rainbow at the end of this story. You deserve Robert and I am so proud of you for being strong and ending the abuse. And you gave Ayden a chance to grow in an environment that is loving and stable. The best gift you could have given your child because I know most abused women would have stayed. You went through a tramautic experience and it's normal for you to still feel emotional and affected by the abuse. Have you tried to seek counselling? It may help to talk about it and pick up ways to cope with how you are still feeling. Overall, you're doing a great job as a mother. You're a strong woman and an example that life can and will be better. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
GorillaTheater Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I'm very glad that you got your son and yourself out of that horrrible situation. I hope you reported it to the police. But help me understand: you left your husband in May, and you're already married to someone else? Link to post Share on other sites
Author aydensmommy Posted July 25, 2013 Author Share Posted July 25, 2013 thanks everyone! the police were involved and he has 2 charges of assault but the cases were dismissed. and no we were not married. we were just together.... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Exitleft Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 I am proud of you also for having the strength and courage to get out. It sounds like it was a nightmare, glad you survived to hopefully save another young woman from the same horror by sharing your story. Thank you!! Link to post Share on other sites
Toddbt12y1 Posted July 25, 2013 Share Posted July 25, 2013 thanks everyone! the police were involved and he has 2 charges of assault but the cases were dismissed. and no we were not married. we were just together.... Wait. Why where the charges dismissed? There should be medical proof amongst other proof of his abuse. Sounds like something stupid of the police.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author aydensmommy Posted July 29, 2013 Author Share Posted July 29, 2013 yeah it was dismissed i was not able to fly to arizona and honestly did not want to at all. things are great now, im happy and healthy as is my son. child support is headed his way! good luck mike!!!!:laugh::laugh: Link to post Share on other sites
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