YssaBoo Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 I posted early this week in the breaking up area and I still need a guys view...If you read my last post..my ex after months of not talking is emailing me again...he just told me the relationship he left me for wouldn't have lasted that long...she was a dumb cheerleader is what he said...he has admitted so much...apologized for his behavior and talking bad about the other girl... OK men this is for you....why would you do this out of the blue....he told me things would be different when I turned 18 and I do next friday...I have dated alot of guys,but I can't get over him...even though I was the one who told him I couldn't be just a friend to him..he knows this .....or hoped he remembered this the night I walked away from him... I am giving him the chance to prove himself...but I need help from a guy who has done this or a girl who's ex has done this..His sis told me he talked about me alot ...bad...but I don't know whether to believe her or not...I have caught her in alot of lies and She's trying to get back in the good graces of her mom...he denies he said the stuff she said..do I believe him...or the lies I have caught her in... thanks for all the support during and after our breakup and keep the advice coming... Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 OK men this is for you....why would you do this out of the blue.... K, I'll just out and say it.....I would do this out of the blue if, 1. I'm not gettin' any from the cheerleader. 2. I need to keep my options open in case this falls through. 3. I'm afraid to not have anyone at all to get my hands on. Sorry for being so blunt. But given your age and his up and leaving for a cheer leader, then all of a sudden wants to come back to you.....this is what I gather. It's just one man's opinion.... Link to post Share on other sites
PatientOne Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 Actually, it's two men's opinions. Moose is absolutely right. Link to post Share on other sites
Author YssaBoo Posted October 28, 2004 Author Share Posted October 28, 2004 Yeah...that's what I was afraid of..... Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 I think he is trying to string you along as an insurance policy...without any premiums . Link to post Share on other sites
nycstudent Posted October 28, 2004 Share Posted October 28, 2004 How old is this guy? That probably makes a big difference too. But yeah, if he's around the same age as you and still in school and stuff, he's probably just keeping you there so he has a fallback plan. Link to post Share on other sites
Author YssaBoo Posted October 29, 2004 Author Share Posted October 29, 2004 He's 19...a sophmore in college...I was his first girlfriend he kept past a week...we were together for about 4-5 months...he started modeling and changed...Now I am a rep for a portrait studio and have 2 modeling offers and it seems like he is jealous...my portfolio came with my rep and I just had senior pix taken that will be in the mall in a large city...he had to pay $800 and has done nothing since..everthing he tries he gives up on and never finishes...he told me the last night we were together that he didn't think he could ever love me or anyone,because he didn't love himself...He is so nice looking and has so much potential...I just don't think he cares...it has been 5 months since we last spoke...why though would he wait that long to contact me...he broke with the other girl about a month after they started going out...about 5 months ago...Everything is just so weird...thanks all you guys... Link to post Share on other sites
Weird Posted October 29, 2004 Share Posted October 29, 2004 is he a good guy or just "good looking" because wtf cares what a person looks like if they are a dumbass prick. Link to post Share on other sites
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