Got it Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 Sure he does - its a continuous ego stroke to know youre sending or posting pics for him while with your kids. You should try keeping him in the dark, or instilling a bit of curiosity or mystery. Umm, I didn't read this rule in the rule book. We would take other pictures, just limited racy ones as I don't like the idea of racy pictures out there of me regardless of the relationship status especially electronic ones. In regards to things just being in his phone, its a work phone so there was no way to access it as it had a password and so no shared account. Link to post Share on other sites
BrokenPrincess Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 May I ask why you sent all of those photos? It's one thing to send maybe one photo of you two together, but all of those? Ones of him in between your legs, a puddle on their bed (y'all did it in their bed/inside their home...?!) did you do it to rub salt in her wounds? I'm sure she/he would have gotten the message with maybe just a simple photo of you together but the explicit ones? I'm also curious as to why you took the puddle picture... She said she sent it to HIS phone to emphasize that he not contact her. But the BS had his phone so she saw it instead of him. Nevertheless, those are some pretty graphic photos. I'm also wondering if you took those as proof of your A? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author LilGirlandOW Posted July 28, 2013 Author Share Posted July 28, 2013 I can understand taking any pictures you want.. keeping them as reminders to look back, and then saving some as evidence even. I'm also curious about the "puddle picture", was that taken at a point in your A where you knew things wern't working for you and you wanted a grossly graphic image to prove territory was marked in her bed? My MM took 2 pictures of us being intimate on his phone, not sure what he did with them (deleted or saved). Link to post Share on other sites
georgia girl Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 Good gravy! I can't believe so many people take intimate photos. I'm not a prude, but I certainly don't get why you would ever take the risk of something so intimate becoming public even with my own husband. Smoocherific, I genuinely love your posts but your pics - particularly the post-sex pick of a wet spot - was a bit extreme? Did you know that your relationship was in trouble and need the evidence? Lil, I know you love this guy so much that your blinded and I think sucked into the fantasy of being submissive and protected by him, but you have to have some self-protection. Get those intimate photos deleted. From a totally legal perspective, these pics are owned by the possessor, especially if they can prove that they were willingly provided to the possessor. These pics are not benign. They can't just force a Dday, which you may or may not want. They're admissible in court, can cost you your job, cause massive public embarrassment. What seems like sexy fun in a moment can be highly destructive. Sorry, I couldn't help but be a practical killjoy here. Link to post Share on other sites
bentleychic Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 Sure he does - its a continuous ego stroke to know youre sending or posting pics for him while with your kids. You should try keeping him in the dark, or instilling a bit of curiosity or mystery. The thing is, though, IF I'm going along with the plan that we are supposedly following, IF I am to believe that we might have a possible future, I like and am glad that he's interested in the kids and family. I'm not in to playing games. I'm very up front about who I am and what I'm about. I'm not going to be something I'm not or play games to keep him intrigued. If he doesn't like who I am, he can walk and vice versa. Also, I post them on facebook for my extended family and friends to see, not specifically for him. He sees them, of course, but I've always posted pics on fb of the adventures that the kids and I take, long before he came back in to the picture. Link to post Share on other sites
sweet_pea Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 She said she sent it to HIS phone to emphasize that he not contact her. But the BS had his phone so she saw it instead of him. Nevertheless, those are some pretty graphic photos. I'm also wondering if you took those as proof of your A? Ok, cool, I misread. Link to post Share on other sites
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