what shall i do - my irish man has gone missing!!!!!!!!! - HELP and ADVICE - PLEASE

[coyandcute]

I went to Dublin and met this guy, not expecting to meet anyone, that was the last thing i expected!! anyway, spent a beautiful week together and he was genuinally really sweet and didn't pressurise me sleeping with him and we didn't.

 

Am not that kinda gal!!!

 

so we text and mail each other and he sends the most beautiful emails, he says he was happy on his own and fine until he met me and i changed that all for him......he thinks about me all the time etc and just really lovely stuff. I mean he didn't have to say any of that stuff.

 

From me being unsure and him the one really into me, bringing the whole thing onto a deeper level it is now me doing all the mailing and texting and calling. Although when i do call he is very very sweet and says how much he misses me.

 

Its now been a week and he hasn't emailed or called and i called him on wednesday and he was completely fine but i felt like asking him why 'if he misses me so much?!' he doesn't mail or text me first....but i feel like a psyco...

 

I am im my late 2o's and had various relationships so i know the good from the bad and for the first time in ages, i know he is genuine but he just doesn't make the effort but is so great with his words (i know, the irish charm?!)

 

I don't know if i should now play hard to get and let him do the running.

 

He works away alot in europe and is now away for 3 weeks and says he mabe coming to london.

 

Shall i call him or let him now call me. It is getting obvoious that i like him and the shoe is definatley on the other foot??!!

 

 

help...................

[SoleMate]

Shall i call him or let him now call me?

Let him call you. If he really wants to see you or talk to you, he will. Do you seriously want a relationship where you do all the work to move it forward?