affairaddict Posted July 27, 2013 Share Posted July 27, 2013 I'm mad today. Been reading posts from the MW over on infidelity about them being happy in their marriage and wanting a toy to play with. Although Our affair wasn't really sexual it was emotional but im starting to see the above must be true , but you get so deluded!! I'm mad angry at him and myself, for the crumbs I received. I want to punch him ( air punching) selfish selfish guy , greedy. Never never letting him have my attention again. I must hold on to this anger. Link to post Share on other sites
KathyM Posted July 27, 2013 Share Posted July 27, 2013 It's good that you're seeing him for what he is. A lying, cheating, selfish man who just wants to be a cake eater and is using you to fill that role. It's amazing to me that any woman would want to settle for crappy men like this who outright show their true colors--that they are lying, cheating, selfish men who put themselves above everyone else, and have no regard for the consequences of their behavior, or what they are doing to their wife and kids. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BetrayedH Posted July 27, 2013 Share Posted July 27, 2013 One place I see some consistent frustration with a MM (whether it's being lamented by an OW or a BS) is the cowardice of so many MM. Both women suffer because the man simply lacks the courage to make a choice. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Wambo Posted July 27, 2013 Share Posted July 27, 2013 One place I see some consistent frustration with a MM (whether it's being lamented by an OW or a BS) is the cowardice of so many MM. Both women suffer because the man simply lacks the courage to make a choice. Why would they make the choice when they can get best from both worlds? Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 27, 2013 Author Share Posted July 27, 2013 I do see him as a coward. It's very unattractive. I'm starting to open my eyes but it really hurts. I never ever understood how a dumper feels hurt or sad but gosh i do now. Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 28, 2013 Author Share Posted July 28, 2013 Looked on facebook saw a photo I didn't like. My heart is beating and I'm mad , jealous , and angry . Written several notes in draft telling him he's a cake eater and a liar and I'm telling her. Never been this angry before. Is this normal?? Link to post Share on other sites
Wambo Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 Looked on facebook saw a photo I didn't like. My heart is beating and I'm mad , jealous , and angry . Written several notes in draft telling him he's a cake eater and a liar and I'm telling her. Never been this angry before. Is this normal?? Yes. In a way you could consider it the OM/OW D Day. Link to post Share on other sites
jlola Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 Looked on facebook saw a photo I didn't like. My heart is beating and I'm mad , jealous , and angry . Written several notes in draft telling him he's a cake eater and a liar and I'm telling her. Never been this angry before. Is this normal?? I have a relative who was having an affair with MW. She never offered to show her facebook, but he did see it through a "friend". It showed nothing of what she said of their marriage. She was a total cake eater. I asked him why he never asked to see her facebook, which was closed to the public and her husband's facebook with all the time they spent together. Told him he should have baited her at a coffee shop and casually asked her for password to take a look years ago. It would have saved him years of heartache. It may have well been she was in love with him. But she was also addicted to the attention of having both men cater to her. Definite cake eater. I also told him, though she may have one day left her husband for him, it would not have been the end of it. She was the type that would play both men against each other. People who love attention and need validation rarely change. Why are you not telling BS? Are you afraid even if you do, the game will still be played? He will waver back and forth and you will be no further in your relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
Author affairaddict Posted July 28, 2013 Author Share Posted July 28, 2013 The only reason I want to tell is because I'm angry and jealous. These are pitiful reasons and I am not spiteful Link to post Share on other sites
Wambo Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 The only reason I want to tell is because I'm angry and jealous. These are pitiful reasons and I am not spiteful It's normal and these emotions will last a few days. Try to keep a cool head and focus on healing. If you need to inflict revenge, at least you do it thinking straight. Link to post Share on other sites
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