jimmyjimmy12 Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 So we have been together about a year or so...and she thought she looked ok cause I was telling her but since her family started saying she looked chubby...even though she isn't well cause most of them look like twigs...that you can see their ribs easy enough..she has decided that she would diet and doesn't care that I say that she is perfect and I don't want her to change...now she just thinks what they tell her...and since she has been dieting well...I don't like girls too skinny...just personal choice..it's how my feelings are and can't change them...or well I don't want her fat but not like skin and bones anyway I told her but she doesn't care....I said i'm losing physical attraction to you...cause she's big on the s*ual thing but she hates that I am and doesn't want me too...but I can't just lie about my feelings about it..she wants to continue...but if she does..she's gonna end up as one of those girls where I don't find attractive physically much at all..but she will hate it...I love her ofc..and it's not all about that but s*xual stuff is a big thing to her and how I see her...and how I get turned on by her looks...but is hating that I don't as much so i'm stuck....any advice? I mean if she hates that im not as attracted as much to cry over it...but then continue..saying she wouldn't be if I did the same as dieting..well im confused..please help..I have no where else to turn...I can't even sleep... Link to post Share on other sites
Morgoth Posted July 28, 2013 Share Posted July 28, 2013 Dude, just marry her and she will put on 20 lbs. Give her a baby and add 15 to 20 more, and by year 10 she will have more rolls than a bakery, when she hits menopuase, she will be shopping for clothes that have the elastic waistband and wearing granny panties that you could make a ship sail out of, asking if she looks sexy and complaining you don't find her attractive anymore. I would imagine some of these women may post over in the infidelity section and think we husbands should be satisfied that they compeltely let theirselves go. If it wasn't for the BS leagl contract called marriage, and the fact you have to give them 50% of everything to get rid of them maybe they would try a little harder. Link to post Share on other sites
DawnR Posted July 29, 2013 Share Posted July 29, 2013 So we have been together about a year or so...and she thought she looked ok cause I was telling her but since her family started saying she looked chubby...even though she isn't well cause most of them look like twigs...that you can see their ribs easy enough..she has decided that she would diet and doesn't care that I say that she is perfect and I don't want her to change...now she just thinks what they tell her...and since she has been dieting well...I don't like girls too skinny...just personal choice..it's how my feelings are and can't change them...or well I don't want her fat but not like skin and bones anyway I told her but she doesn't care....I said i'm losing physical attraction to you...cause she's big on the s*ual thing but she hates that I am and doesn't want me too...but I can't just lie about my feelings about it..she wants to continue...but if she does..she's gonna end up as one of those girls where I don't find attractive physically much at all..but she will hate it...I love her ofc..and it's not all about that but s*xual stuff is a big thing to her and how I see her...and how I get turned on by her looks...but is hating that I don't as much so i'm stuck....any advice? I mean if she hates that im not as attracted as much to cry over it...but then continue..saying she wouldn't be if I did the same as dieting..well im confused..please help..I have no where else to turn...I can't even sleep... sounds like you need to nurture her insecurities. Link to post Share on other sites
uncool Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 I'm on the other side of the fence where the grass is supposed to be greener!!! I'm on the opposite side of the spectrum. My wife is hot as hell and is very physically fit and wears a size 1/2 jeans and has a butt that melts butter. My problem is that she's now un-attracive to me because of her bad attitude and terrible behavior towards our marriage. I've been in a sexless marriage for a long time. I'm regretting marrying her. I wish I'd have married someone who could be awesome to me... someone who could be my best friend. Someone who would be more attracted to each other on the inside. What if you were blind? Link to post Share on other sites
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