Dating a sociopath?

[edgygirl]

With all due respect, 90% of the time I don't agree with your positions, and this is just one more instance where I disagree. Apparently we are very different people, which is fine by me.

 

You can keep saying I am to blame all you want, but I know I'm not. Fortunately for you, you apparently never dealt with a sociopath. It is life changing and it's clear you can't grasp it.

 

Fine. If instead of trying to learn about something you're not familiar with and become a more knowledgeable person, if you insist I am stupid and lack judgement and think what I am stating is bull, it is you who is missing expanding your horizons.

 

Don't believe me? See the dozens of posts similar to mine: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Dating-a-sociopath/139706589529382?fref=ts

 

Are all these people lacking judgement for being duped? If that's what you think... it is your problem, not mine. I know what I've been through and I'm clever enough to know that... you just don't get what you're talking about.

 

Why people keep posting this bs when I said repeatedly I disagree? Do they really think I'm gonna change my mind to hear it one more time? LOL. Don't waste your time.

 

Be serious my dear - I don't know you and I don't need to judge.

You will be "you" either way.

 

You need to stop worrying about how much of a sociopath this man is.

And figure out how at 40 you allowed yourself to be manipulated.

FFS - next you may be claiming he performed witch craft.

 

You allowed a small attraction and pretty words to get you pregnant in two months of knowing a man and abort a child( I would say I would have done the same ... however I would have never intentionally gotten pregnant this early.)

 

He can be satan for all I care!

However you need to see your own fault in this.

This man is just a man.

I really don't care what label you give.

You have as much fault in this as him and his ways.

 

This is bizarre.

Accountability my dear.

[Star Gazer]

Don't believe me? See the dozens of posts similar to mine: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Dating-a-sociopath/139706589529382?fref=ts

 

What does a FB page prove? Do we believe everything we read on FB now? I'm sure some LSers could make some cute memes to go with this thread, like those posted on that page. Just because stranger say it, doesn't make it so.

 

Interesting signature, BTW.

[William]

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So, let's move on.

[SmileFace]

You are projecting.

I have not once said anything about your character or discredited you in any manner.

 

However my point stands. Stop looking for a way out of this. You need to look at yourself. You dealt with a human being that you knew for 2 months. You are insulting your own self by saying that he manipulated you.

 

Come on -- do you even think that is possible?

You can keep raving about what he is that doesn't change the matter that you were a part of this. I hope when you are researching all this -- I hope you see the people with the same issues keep ending up with the same problems. How many sociopaths can one meet?

 

What difference does it make that you disagree. I am allowed to post my own opinion and will continue to. I really don't even understand why you found the need to say that. I have no reason to insult you - I posted my opinion since I think it is helpful. If you don't -- oh well, hopefully someone who may end up in a situation similar to yours can read it one day and see how accountability may help them rather than ghost stories.