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CrossFitJunky

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I have always had trouble keeping girlfriends. I think the longest I have ever had was 2 years but in general I am going well if I get past 6 months.

 

I am very attentive to my womans needs and have never had complaints about unsatisfactory performance so I feel I am holding my end up with that. I am rather well endowed, not overly long but very thick and for the second time in my life I have lost a girlfriend because of it.

 

I have been so depressed thinking that is was my performance in the past that I visited many prostitutes seeking their guidance. If I am to believe them (and yes I realize I am paying them so their opinion is swayed) then I am doing everything right. However they too comment that I am very thick and hard to handle.

 

I have no issues pleasing whomever I am with orally, but when it comes to vaginal sex it doesn’t matter how wet and how much lube we use in about a half of cases they ask to stop after 10 minutes or so. When it comes to anal sex I have only ever met one woman that could take it all, unfortunately as great as it was she is married and had no desire to leave her husband.

 

I feel that I am becoming a bit of a gimmick, I am sure many of the dates I have had are because ex-girlfriends are talking and others just want to see for themselves. I guess I should just consider myself lucky and enjoy the ride but I really would like someone permanent to just be with as me.

 

A few of my female friends have told me it’s akin to women with large breasts only getting dates because of them. I think that makes some sense but it really doesn’t help.

 

I just split from my most recent girlfriend because she loves anal sex and just cannot do it with me. Everything else was just great, she even said that herself, it’s just that she wants anal sex and I can’t give it to her. She even said she would love to stay if I let her do anal with other guys, nothing else at all except anal. After I slammed to door in her back I actually contemplated it. I don’t want to go through life moving from one short term relationship to another and if that’s what it takes…. I don’t think I could ever say yes to it but the fact I was even considering it says wonders I think.

 

I guess there’s no advice, I am just here to vent. Once again I am lonely and frustrated. Sometimes things that people would consider a blessing turn out to be the biggest (pun not intended) problem of all. I am seriously considering reduction surgery, it scares the heck out of me but I feel it's the only way I will be able to have a normal relationship.

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Maleficent

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Well I sincerely don't know what to tell you...first time I've heard a guy complain he is too big though.

I've dated guys who were pretty huge...to a point where the first time I slept with a guy who was 'normal' sized I thought he was small...

 

Keep in mind we are able to fit a baby's head through there at some point so there is really no reason why they would be able to fit in a big penis.

 

Anyways. My phone number is...

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Balzac

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Welcome to LS. Lottsa talk here about size issues.

I feel your pain but your talk about reduction surgery is making me cringe. Definitely not the answer.

 

Keep talking here.

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Well I sincerely don't know what to tell you...first time I've heard a guy complain he is too big though.

I've dated guys who were pretty huge...to a point where the first time I slept with a guy who was 'normal' sized I thought he was small...

 

Keep in mind we are able to fit a baby's head through there at some point so there is really no reason why they would be able to fit in a big penis.

 

Anyways. My phone number is...

;)

 

The cliche is that women want a guy that is hung well....and the sex will be great.

 

The truth is....that many(I didnt say all) women are uncomfortable with anything bigger than slightly above avg in size.

 

I've had the same complaint from women. I've never lost a girl over it....but I've had to lube the hell out it because I tend to last a while. Women have even complained about being too sore because of how long I can go.

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CrossFitJunky

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Keep in mind we are able to fit a baby's head through there at some point so there is really no reason why they would be able to fit in a big penis.

 

For vaginal sex it is not the fitting that is the problem, most women like the feel of it, it's the actual sex, the thrusting and so on.

 

My penis has been medically measured at 202mm diameter (just a touch under 8 inches). It also comes with a few medical issues. It requires a lot of blood when erect so I have to be careful otherwise I could literally pass out from too much sex.

 

It was great when I was younger and could pick up almost any woman. But those days are over and I just want to settle down. It looks like the only way I will be able to is by myself.

 

Anyways. My phone number is...

 

I'm sorry, your message got cut off, I missed the number. Can you try again? ;)

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Have you tried finding a woman for who your penis is compatible?

 

VS trying to make it work with women who clearly aren't?

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CrossFitJunky

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Have you tried finding a woman for who your penis is compatible?

VS trying to make it work with women who clearly aren't?

 

Oh gee, why didn't I think of that?

 

Please tell me how on Earth you would go about finding that compatible person?

 

I would love nothing more than finding that right person but it's not as simple as you make it sound.

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The same way everyone else does. You have sex with people, and if its good, and you are compatible sexually...you consider it a good match in that regard.

 

I didn't say it was simple. I asked if you had considered trying that approach.

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The same way everyone else does. You have sex with people, and if its good, and you are compatible sexually...you consider it a good match in that regard.

 

I didn't say it was simple. I asked if you had considered trying that approach.

 

I don't agree. First, the vagina is super flexible. Biologically, we can fit a baby's head through there. No reason an over sized penis wouldn't fit. I've seen women fit soda cans in there.

It's just a matter of starting slow and letting the woman's body get used to it. With time, it won't be an issue anymore.

 

It's also not really a valid reason to break with someone you really like. Me thinks the women he's been dating were just looking for an excuse to break up with him.

 

Also, with today's variety of sex toys and other stuff, there is no such thing as 'sexual incompatibility' (not that I believe there ever was)

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Wait, now I have to feel sorry for men with large penises too? Agreed with the above, do what the small penis guys do... Date around and hang on the the girl that does not runaway screaming.

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Everything else was just great, she even said that herself, it’s just that she wants anal sex and I can’t give it to her. She even said she would love to stay if I let her do anal with other guys, nothing else at all except anal.

 

Many girls think getting it up the butt is more intimate than in vagina, but I can totally understand this girl not going with it given your size. Your gf actually said can you please let me seek out other guys and have them bang me in the arse and it will keep us together. lol. Bizarre. Lots of guys have to win over their girl to try anal, and this one wants to cheat because it cant be done. Imagine the shytestorm if I guy proposed this when his gf wont do anal. I don't think this will be your typical scenario for you going forward.

I know the BIG dong thing is a bit like wishing you had a nympho for a gf for some guys. Nice in theory. Lots of women would love you but for sure. You just have to date around till you find them. Like you compared yourself to a huge breasted women. There are guys out there who love em. Are you dating petite women?

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The problem to sustain relationships doesn't have anything to do with the fact that you're banging tons of prostitutes and a married woman?

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The problem to sustain relationships doesn't have anything to do with the fact that you're banging tons of prostitutes and a married woman?

 

I have never done this while in a relationship. In fact I only went to prostitutes to possibly learn. I know that sounds weird but I thought my inability to maintain a relationship was due to my performance in bed so I did something about it. While I didn't expect any life changing advice from them I did think it was better learning from them than just picking up a girl each weekend from a club and using her as a one night stand experiment.

 

As for the married woman, this has been an ongoing thing for many years. Her husband knows all about it and I have met him a number of times. Whenever I am in a relationship her and I call it quits.

 

There is only one girl that I have ever been totally comfortable with and her with me. We were together for two years and everything was great. She went overseas to study and we decided to split rather than try a long distance relationship. We still keep in contact and I have been to visit a few times. We now basically have a friends with benefits relationship.

 

She finishes her study at the end of this year and then wants to travel the world for two or three years. She wants me to go with her, in fact she wants us back together but I have commitments at home and I can't travel for that period of time. Maybe in three years if she decides to resettle here we can rekindle our relationship.

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In that case ill swallow my words. I still wouldn't recommend hiring prostitutes to improve your skills if your goal is to become better at partner sex.

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I don't agree. First, the vagina is super flexible. Biologically, we can fit a baby's head through there.

 

Yeah, but I don't think any woman has a baby's head goes in and out of her V everyday.

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Yeah, but I don't think any woman has a baby's head goes in and out of her V everyday.

 

Exactly, nor do women seem to find this act pleasurable most of the time, I'm told.

 

The fact is, not every woman can handle a larger penis.

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