Worried I might have said something creepy.. Am I overthinking?

[blueskyday]

She probably just didn't want to go down the road talking about sex. In the future do not mention massages. Every guy who says that automatically gets an eye roll from me. It makes us women think a guy is saying that for sexual reasons, but doesn't want to come off as one who is asking out right for sex. Very transparent and creepy, even if innocent (which it is usually not)

 

Just ask her out and don't ask her how she wants to be touched, or if she like massages. That would be like me asking you if you like to have your thighs gently stroked.... ask her out go have fun. Be confident. And don't over touch. She will see that you are ok