loverkawaiionna Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 I'm in grade 12, and my boyfriend is in first year university.... we started dating early May, so it's been almost 6 months now... he used to talk to me all the time.. plenty of emails, and he would actually call me. But ever since mid-august, he rarely talks to me anymore. I know he's busy with his schooling, but he has broken his promise to me, and I feel as if there's a lack of respect on his end. I told him how upset I was that he hadn't been calling me, and I told him that all I wanted was 3 minutes a day.. on the way to class, at the bus stop... a simple "just want to let you know im thinking of you but now i hafta go"... I told him not to make me that promise and that I would understand if he was busy, but he insisted and promised he would... It has been over 2 months now and he has only called once. I have the right to be upset, don't I? When i emailed him and accussed him of breaking his promise, he didn't even remember WHAT he promised, even though i made it such a huge deal... I email him, I call him.. I've sent him a couple of letters... yet I get nothing in return. I don't call him exsessively- only a few times a week- but there is no effort on his end. He still won't give me the 3 minutes a day... even when I call him, he doesn't even give me full attention.. I just feel as is we're falling apart... I feel as if there is a lack of commitment and respect on his end... Am i right to feel like that? Last Saturday I watched a sappy movie at my friend's house, and I started missing him terribly. I went home and called him up to tell him I missed him, but I ended up leaving the conversation mad. I'm getting sick of it.... I emailed him the following day saying i'm at my ropes end... I have given him my unconditional love for the last three months.. should I continue to suffer until we can be together, or end it and risk not having a future? I'm so confused.... Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 End it and seek a future with someone better who is willing to respect and communicate. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 Honestly, this is awful to say, but you can't expect a guy who moves away from home to go to college to stick to his word and keep his mind on you. College is the WORST place for a guy to go, especially if he's living on his own for the first time, if you want to have a long distance relationship. It'll end soon, I reckon. Sorry to be so blunt, but that's how it goes. And it's been two months and you've talked once? Sweetheart, I think you guys are already over. Link to post Share on other sites
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