dnm1010 Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 my sister beat me up. my parents and i dont know what to do. shes 16 and im 23 but shes alot more powerful than i am. what do you do with a difficult child? i had to miss school today because my face is a bloody mess. please help. Link to post Share on other sites
dizi Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 That is awful. It is hard to know what to do with a young person who is "acting out"...BUT~ as hard as it would be to do, you could call the cops and have her arrested. This is not something you should tolerate. She needs to learn that this is not acceptable. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way... If you don't mind me asking, what was her reason for doing that?? Do you both live with your parents? Did this happen at your parent's house? What do they think about how to handle her? Have your parents ever tried to get her into counseling? I hope you're feeling better soon!!! Link to post Share on other sites
sami Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 Let it be on her record. Call the police. Link to post Share on other sites
tiki Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 What a witch. Are you a guy or a girl? Did you put up a fight? Tell her you're going to report her. Link to post Share on other sites
Nocturnalkitee Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 Why can't your parents control your sister, is she mentally unstable? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted October 30, 2004 Share Posted October 30, 2004 Hit her back. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dnm1010 Posted October 30, 2004 Author Share Posted October 30, 2004 hahaha well i am a little person and ive never been ina fight plus i just never thought about digging my nails into her flesh... i tried to fight back.. i pulled her hair to get her off me and stuff like that but her nails were in my face. she is 16 and were both girls... i have always been the "good girl" so shes been acting up since she was abotu 12... my parents have had her in counseling.. they tried a lot of things. they were there when it happened.. they were trying to get her off me the whole time. shes been expelled 3 times for beating someone up.. she cannot handle authority and my parents and i have been talking about what we need to do next. we have called the police on her before.... what do you do with a kid thats so jelous shes just bad. Link to post Share on other sites
NiCoLe20 Posted November 23, 2004 Share Posted November 23, 2004 wow that sounds exactly like my lil sis... she's 16 and im 20 and she's such a b****... if she doesnt get her way she flips out and gets violent... she's on medication for that.. she was on zoloft, and 2 other prescriptions i dont know the name of... we call them her ''happy'' pills b/c she needs them to be happy lol... andwut sucks is if i dont hang out with her or take her somewhere she will go and rat on me to my parents about something stupid... i cant even tell her anything anymore in fear of her ratting me out...and my mom said next time she says something that i do tahts bad then im out of the house... she got suspended for fights in school as well b/c ofher anger problem... she's seen therapists and doctors and nothing helps... they said she has a chemical imbalance...and it sounds like ur sis has that too.. we're in the sameboat... my sis is a beast but i wont let her beat me up! if she goes after me i will knock her down...she came after me with a knife one time!!! how pshycho is that... my dad ran after her and beat the crap out of her...she called the cops...and they blamed my dad!! typical right... well since all this stuff has happend a while ago she's calmed down a bit b/c she's SLOWLY maturing which is a + she made new friends so that lets me off the hook of having to chill with her when shes bored... so dont feel bad...just try to stay away from her as much as possible and ignoreher... if she asks wuts wrong say u dont wanna talk to a pshyco..she'll get the hint! Link to post Share on other sites
DayumQuitPlayin Posted November 23, 2004 Share Posted November 23, 2004 The only way to stop her from doing it is to Hit Her Back! I mean.. that's all I did to my brother and he learned not to be messing with me like that. Once she learns that you'll not going to put up with it.. and that you'll fight back.. she'll leave you alone.. if it persists.. then just get your parents to take action. Link to post Share on other sites
Naive Posted November 23, 2004 Share Posted November 23, 2004 HIT HER A$$ BACK!!!! Maybe she needs more help than just counseling. Maybe an intern would be good. It all depends on how bad she really is!! Link to post Share on other sites
The_Analyzer Posted November 23, 2004 Share Posted November 23, 2004 Tell your parents maybe enrolling her in some anger management classes. She needs to learn another way to channel her anger instead of hitting. Buy her a punching bag for christmas. At least it would be the bag and not a person. ___________________________ "Don't argue with me, you wont win." Link to post Share on other sites
Author dnm1010 Posted November 24, 2004 Author Share Posted November 24, 2004 well things are calm now... parents prefered not to take a side and im suposed to act like nothing is wrong... i havent talked to her in a while... were just on non-speaking terms now... im not home much.... and thats realy it... im almost 23 i cant fight this forever i need to move on so im trying... i appreciate everyones support... and just so you all know i am a wuss im little and weak! ive never been in a fight before in my life! so i tried to fight back but it didnt really work well... Link to post Share on other sites
magda Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 Call the police next time. It's domestic violence. Your parents should've done so instead of letting your face get banged all to hell. Why didn't someone intercept? Don't hit her back, c'mon people. Restrain her if you're able, but violence doesn't solve violence in this case. Your home shouldn't be a war zone. If your sister is a violent person that can't be controlled there are detention places for juveniles like her. It's hard to report someone you want to love, but you could've been seriously injured and if you really weren't fighting back much she sounds like she has serious anger problems. Your parents should not permit her to endanger you. I went through the same thing with a sibling.. she ended up sent to a "boarding school" for bad girls when she was almost 17. They tried everything, including calling the police several times because of her violence, and they were at the end of their rope. If your parents aren't going to step up, just keep your distance as much as possible and try not to get in the middle. Link to post Share on other sites
DayumQuitPlayin Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 I'm sorry to hear that, Maybe you should get someone to fight her for you. Someone her own age.. that way she'll be intimidated. If that doesn't work... then do as the other person suggested.. called the Authorities.. if anything.. hopefully she fears the Cops. Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted November 24, 2004 Share Posted November 24, 2004 Maybe you should consider some self defense classes for yourself - martial arts, perhaps? Next time she comes charging at you with raised fists all you'd have to do is basically redirect the momentum so that she lands on her ass, which I have heard that sort of thing teaches you very well. Of course if she's coming after you with a weapon a cell phone with 911 on one-touch speed dial is about the best you can do there. Link to post Share on other sites
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