ashesmum Posted December 28, 2000 Share Posted December 28, 2000 I would like a little advice from some men (ladies invited too) about how to spice up the bedroom. Just curious on what some guys really go ga-ga for. What can I do? What can get him turned on fast? And please leave out the B.J. thing. Any information would be interesting. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Jaylene Posted December 28, 2000 Share Posted December 28, 2000 I think that you need to do soemthing first that makes YOU feel sexy and confident; that in itself is a major turn-on for a guy. Fix yourhari in a new way, experiment with make-up.. Soemthing that I think is sexy is being alone in a ark, candle-lit mood, with a bottle of wine or liquor of your choice to get you both relaxed. Play some music, wear soemthing lacy and sexy, give him a back massage while you talk to him, strike up any conversation. As the night goes on give him a private lap dance, and just strut your sexiness. Do whatever feels comfortable to you. This can be a very intimate experience that will allow you to explore your sexuality on a different level. I would like a little advice from some men (ladies invited too) about how to spice up the bedroom. Just curious on what some guys really go ga-ga for. What can I do? What can get him turned on fast? And please leave out the B.J. thing. Any information would be interesting. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted December 28, 2000 Share Posted December 28, 2000 I think the best way to spice things up in the bedroom is to bring a guy into it who really cares about you and who is attracted to you...someone you communicate with well and who is attracted to you sexually. If you do the above, you won't have to go through all kinds of contortions and tricks to make things interesting and to get him aroused. Making love should not be a circus act although many couples of long standing have to do a lot of things to keep it interesting. I think that's sad. My vote is for you to find the right guy, not the right spices. With the right guy, you will be mutually aroused with the natural flow of things and you won't need a lot of extra gimmicks to do the trick. Link to post Share on other sites
Guy Posted December 28, 2000 Share Posted December 28, 2000 Well, the sexy lacy things ALWAYS work for me.. nothing too trashy, but nothing too conservative either. It's really best to actually get your significant other's advice on this.. whether it be by directly asking him, or by nudging him with sexy hints. Another thing I've always loved is when women display their bodies in a confident manner. Take yourself halfway seriously for once and show off your body! Don't overdo it.. don't start jumping off desks and dressers while making sexy eye contact with him.. but just wear something seductive and pretend you're by yourself in front of a mirror.. be subtle and slow, and let him know that you want him as much as he wants you. HUGE turn on for me. If I think the woman is as turned on as I am, the sex is always much more passionate. Anyway, a little perspective from a guy. Cheers! I would like a little advice from some men (ladies invited too) about how to spice up the bedroom. Just curious on what some guys really go ga-ga for. What can I do? What can get him turned on fast? And please leave out the B.J. thing. Any information would be interesting. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
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