Need some advice please help!!

[Aru]

Hello all! I am new to this site and from the looks of things, its the answer to my problem. Lets start by saying that I am 24 years old, married for 3 years and have a 3 year old boy with my wife. I am working part time and currently finishing up my Nursing degree. Things are going great but just recently I have been getting extremely close to a friend of mine. She is 21 and also has a daughter with her current boyfriend. I am in good terms with her boyfriend. I have known him for more than 10 years. But for the past couple of months, she an I grew close. We were like best friends. We told each other secrets in which my best guy friend doesnt even know. We tell each other our problems and we stay on the phone for hours at a time. It really seemed we were the best of friends. Well a couple of nights ago, I was over her house and her boyfriend was gone at work. We was helping her out with her computer and we had several discussions about anything and everything. We were having a great time. Then it came to the point were she asked me if I would ever cheat on my wife. I thought about it for awhile but did not give her an answer. I asked her the same question and she answer with a shrug. She asked me if I felt attracted to anyone. I looked at her in the eyes, I smiled and said "yes." She looked at me and smiled. She knew i was going to ask her the same question so she just said "yeah i feel the same way" At that point, i realized things were getting a little heated and it was pretty late. I asked to go home and she walked me out. It was about 2:30am. So i had stayed at her house for a good 5 hours. I dont know but ever since i havent stop thinking about what had happen. Well technically nothing did happen but it was awfully close. She called me up that same day and wondered what had happened the previous night. I havent talk to her since because I am afriaid that things might get out of hand and we both may get into trouble. But i miss talking to her. She is my best "girl" friend. What do i do???

[Pocky]

Stop having your needs met by someone that's not your wife. You're using this woman as a replacement for the intimacy you're lacking in your marriage. Why aren't you focusing your energy there? Why isn't your wife your "best girl friend"?

[Nosmas]

Then it came to the point were she asked me if I would ever cheat on my wife.

 

Well, Renfield, I suggest you might wear a cross and a garland of garlic the next time you're around her after the sun goes down.

[TMCM]

If you value your marriage and your family then you must never again have any contact with this woman.

 

If you and your W are having problems then I highly recommend that you seek out the services of a pro-marriage counselor to resolve them.

 

You flirted with disaster and have no idea of the devastation and pain that an affair can bring to all parties involved and to the children from those marriages. Consider yourself lucky and forwarned.