thompson Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 My girlfriend and I were texting back and forth last night. I'm watching her house while she is gone for 2 days with a girlfriend / roomate while they are at the beach. We were texting about something to do with her cats and what I was watching on tv and some other mundane things like the book I just finished reading and how she wants to borrow it. Anyway, out of the blue i get this text from her that says: "SOON! and followed up with "and I need you in me" So I sent her a text back, "Soon what?" She sent me back "Soon I need you in me! Wahtcha doin tomorrow night?" Okay obviously sexting is something her and I do, but the text preceding this were not of that nature and it seemed as if it was intended for someone else. So I called her a few moments later and we chatted for a few minutes and I asked her about it and what she meant by it. Her response was "what am I going to do with you" in a funny upbeat way. I left it at that and didn't pursue any further. We finished our conversation with plans to hang out tomorrow night and through the weekend. What do I do? Link to post Share on other sites
worldgonewrong Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 I'd tell her to cut the b.s. and be straight with you. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted July 31, 2013 Share Posted July 31, 2013 Well, if you received that second text as the first, I wouldn't question it. But her first text was "SOON!" as if it was a response to a question. And it's obvious that you didn't ask a question. That's a red flag to me. Those texts weren't meant for you. She accidentally send it to you. Spidey senses are tingling a little here. I wouldn't get with her when she gets back. You don't know what you'll be exposed to. Try this, when she gets back tomorrow. Ask her if you can use her phone. Tell her that you're charger is screwed up and isn't sending a charge and you need to make a quick call. See if she has no problem handing over the phone and when you get a chance, check her text logs. Look at phone numbers you don't know. If you get the opportunity, write them down and see who they belong to. Or, if she refuses to give you her phone, or makes excuses. Then, you know something is up. She's hiding something. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Chief Wiggum Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 ^^^^^ Do what he says. But yeah, it's not looking good, man. Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 Maybe I'm being naive but this seems nebulous at best. Texts get messed up a lot. Anyway, if there's another guy she's obviously going to be doing it with him in the next week, so maybe try to have a very close friend follow her if she is going to be anywhere other than work or home for several hours. And/or keep an eye on her house for any unknown guys. Link to post Share on other sites
JustAReformedGirl Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 My girlfriend and I were texting back and forth last night. I'm watching her house while she is gone for 2 days with a girlfriend / roomate while they are at the beach. We were texting about something to do with her cats and what I was watching on tv and some other mundane things like the book I just finished reading and how she wants to borrow it. Anyway, out of the blue i get this text from her that says: "SOON! and followed up with "and I need you in me" So I sent her a text back, "Soon what?" She sent me back "Soon I need you in me! Wahtcha doin tomorrow night?" Okay obviously sexting is something her and I do, but the text preceding this were not of that nature and it seemed as if it was intended for someone else. So I called her a few moments later and we chatted for a few minutes and I asked her about it and what she meant by it. Her response was "what am I going to do with you" in a funny upbeat way. I left it at that and didn't pursue any further. We finished our conversation with plans to hang out tomorrow night and through the weekend. What do I do? Sorry, I'm not sure that's really much to go on. She was out with a female friend, right? It's entirely possible that her first texts were of a sober nature...and then perhaps she and her girlfriend busted out some booze, resulting in a drunken sexting venture. Maybe the text was meant for someone else...but there's just not enough evidence to support that. If alcohol wasn't involved, maybe she was trying to be spontaneous. Link to post Share on other sites
JustAReformedGirl Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 Maybe I'm being naive but this seems nebulous at best. Texts get messed up a lot. . Also, this. I can't tell you how many times someone has sent me a long text, and for some reason, I get it in sections-seldom in the right order. I've had people tell me they received my texts in segments as well, and they wind up taking forever to reply to me, because they're waiting for the middle segment to come through, so that the beginning and the end make sense. I'm not saying your GF is innocent, OP. It's possible something's up.. I'm just saying the information you provided is not enough to make more than educated guesses. Link to post Share on other sites
crederer Posted August 4, 2013 Share Posted August 4, 2013 Ask to if you can see her phone. She get's protective there is likely something up. If not, let it be. Link to post Share on other sites
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