melenamw Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 Ive been with my boyfriend for going on 5 years & when we first hooked up but were not quite serious his ex-girlfriend moved to our state (hes not originally from here either & had only been here a couple months when we hooked up) anyway because of me there was a falling out. She didn't agree with our relationship & he told her where to go. They sort of patched things up a year or so later but he never replied to her. She has since repeatedly tried to engage him & for awhile I would reply & she finally got sick.of hearing from me & stopped emailing. For awhile. Its been probably a year & she emailed me asking for.my permission to have a face to face with him & asked me to talk to him I told her I could care less but I couldn't make him do anything. She them sent my reply & the original email to him also asking for a face to face. Saying things like it would mean more than I cam say in an email. & then the next day inviting us to some weird carnival. Two things 1 we have kids together 2 she supposedly wants to meet to talk about her new relationship because hes the only one that would understand. WHAT DO I DO?!? Link to post Share on other sites
CrystalCastles Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 No contact. Don't contact her, don't send her any emails, get your bf not to contact her either. Otherwise she won't go away. She's clearly still attached to your bf if she hasn't moved on yet. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ChessPieceFace Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 She's trying to get back with her ex (your bf.) Wedging her way in any way she can. There's no reason for you to ever be around this woman. Link to post Share on other sites
Author melenamw Posted August 4, 2013 Author Share Posted August 4, 2013 No has ever contacted her. Ive repeatedly told her to stop but she says she has to hear it from him. He just ignores the whole thing. Says hell.deal.with it but never does. I think he either still has feelings for her or enjoys the flattery. Do I make him? Or drop it & Burt out? Link to post Share on other sites
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