Marc1t Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 I really wasn't sure whether to put this here or not so I apologise if its in the wrong place or even the wrong forum. I have been having a few problems with a colleague at work you might say he is trying to bully me, just a few personal digs now & again in front of other colleagues that overstep the mark. Now Im normally a very confident person & would deal with it, but just lately there have been other stresses in my life & it is beginning to get to me. I know he is having an affair with a very much younger single woman he is married with a child everybody else at work have there suspicions but assume they are just good friends I know for sure. I don't want to go into details about how I know. I think he is testing me . Indeed what he does in his private life is nothing to do with me, & frankly I dont care. but my confidence, self esteem is being effected & that I do care about, Iv spoken about this with my very supportive wife who is far less subtle than I & says I should tell his wife, & to be honest right now I would love to see his world crumble around him, Im reallynot a vindictive person or one to spread rumours at work, iv just let things slide too much & now Im not sure how to deal with it. Link to post Share on other sites
Roadkill007 Posted August 3, 2013 Share Posted August 3, 2013 Short term solution : invite "everyone's" families at work formally to a bbq, host said bbq, drop bombshell on wife publicly and watch all hell break loose. Long term solution : Just imagine the short term solution in your head every time he's being a dick to you, and be a bigger man. Compromise solution : Get evidence of cheating, blackmail the guy into leaving you the hell alone Link to post Share on other sites
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